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Happy femdom story: D&S Part 1, D’s side
This happy femdom story starts with a scenario that may sound familiar to some of you: A good long term marriage where the husband has some submissive desires. He finally gathers the courage to tell his wife, and hopes for the best. This is about how that unfolds and what happened next.
This story is in two parts, and I’m absolutely delighted to be able to share both.
Part 1 is his side (he’s D), … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #108 [Audio]
This femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:
- Cut or uncut, that is the question
- How to get my sub to be more communicative
- My submissive doesn’t initiate, help!
- Scammers, boo
- A certain type of play is causing him concerns
- How to support your vanilla partner in finding her dominance
- Resources for beginners (spoiler: My non-fiction book list!
- Me telling a new domme to DTMFA
- I’m really attracted to my sub, but he wants ‘MEAN DOMME’
Happy femdom story: Becca & Adam
This is a story about a long term marriage that had gone slightly off track over the years, and how one submissive man went from seeking kink to looking a little deeper at what was happening in his relationship, and seeing if handing over some control could help with that.
Enjoy.
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Author: Adam
I met Becca while in college. She was walking through the student union in a pair of Calvin Klein jeans that … Continue Reading
The cutie pie and the sex toy: Part 2
Go here for Part 1 of this femdom dating adventure: ‘The cutie pie and the sex toy’.
There was kissing. Not a lot of kissing, there is never enough kissing. But there it was. Muted, as if there was a volume dial set to low, nothing violent that I can recall, which is where I tend to go when that dial starts to turn up. Though there was enough of a hint of where … Continue Reading
Happy femdom story: Carolyn
I’ve been lucky enough to have the fabulous Carolyn as my compatriot and co-moderator in the ‘Submissive Men and Women Who Love Them’ Fetlife group for many years, and during that time, I have had glimpses into the loveliness that is her relationship with her submissive. Carolyn and her submissive (her life partner, her long term love) have been married for over 20 years now.
This is her happy femdom story :).
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Author: Carolyn… Continue Reading
Cock-blocked by a bunch of dudes
An update on my adventures in femdom dating: A couple of weeks ago I wrote about my negotiation with the cutie pie for sex toy testing and cock-stuntery. I’d wanted to organise that for the following week.
My plans were scuppered when scaffolding started to be erected (hurr hurr, ‘erected’) around my building shortly afterwards. I live on the second floor and it was very disconcerting to suddenly have a bunch of workmen crawling … Continue Reading
My sent emails LIII
Hello New-No-Profile-No-Pic-Sub-Guy,
Welcome to Fetlife.
You’re a mature man who presumably has met women before, had relationships, all that jazz.
I know this whole thing with BDSM and all is new to you, but here’s a tip: If you contact women on here, imagine you’re on a vanilla dating site, RSVP, OKcupid, and proceed accordingly.
Think about that for a second. Imagine having no profile information, nothing at all about yourself, no photo, you’re just … Continue Reading