What’s the collective noun for a relentless bunch of femdom blog posts in a row?
I settled on ‘a braingasm’, but maybe ‘an insult’, ‘an authority’, ‘an order’, ‘a shitstorm’, ‘a salubriosity’ (is SO a word!)?
Anyway, I’M DOING IT THIS MONTH.
The fabulous Hyacinth over at A Dissolute Life Means is running an #EveryDamnDayInJune blogging meme, which she does every year and which I’ve never joined. You can find links to folks who are joining in at the bottom of that post linked in the hashtag there.
I like the idea of ‘forced writing’ (is this a kink?!), which … Continue Reading
It is a sign of the times that I no longer know what day it is. Lying in bed this morning having a little bet with myself. I was wrong, by the way. I decided it was most definitely Monday. It’s not. It’s Sunday. So here we are :).
How are you all doing, my lovelies?
I hope you and yours are well and safe. Please insert any and all of the trite pandemic-style banalities here.
On that note, Chrissy Teigen is one of the very few celebrities I follow on twitter because she’s hilarious, isn’t above getting into low-level … Continue Reading
Continuing on with my theme about liars from my previous post: Two stand-outs of ‘men who I didn’t believe, and who I called out’. Neither of them were potential submissives, but still.
A 6’6 fucking model hottie who was lighting up Fetlife with hot pictures.
OBVIOUSLY stolen photos *eyeroll*.
After quite a few of his photos hit ‘Kinky and Popular*’, thanks to women thirsty for hot bods, I got so annoyed that I challenged him, like ‘come on, dude’.
*(K&P shows photos that get the most loves and comments, and it’s mostly full of very … Continue Reading
Femdom dating is a crap shoot, emphasis on the ‘crap’ sometimes.
I’m not sure I ever wrote about the submissive in the US I said “No thanks” to.
He emailed me, was too young, had no way to afford even a single visit. He was just curious and wanted online attention and shenanigans while pretending he wanted something else.
After I said ‘no thank you’, he contacted me using another name, same IP address (amateur mistake). When I challenged him, he said, “No no I’m just staying with that other guy you talked to, I’m definitely not HIM! I live … Continue Reading
There were some conversations on Twitter today about the difference between a 24/7 D/s dynamic and a Female Led Relationship (FLR).
An expanded version of my tweet-thoughts on this below.
The upshot: To me they’re the same thing.
My goal is a 24/7 D/s dynamic.
In my 24/7 D/s dynamic (when I have one), I have the authority in our relationship.
I lead, he follows.
There may be carve-outs that we agree on: For example, I may not have authority over his work or family, we decide what works for us. And that may change over time.
But the bottom … Continue Reading
It’s hard to know what to do when you are overwhelmed by stress and fear and an uncertain future. I know many people are struggling emotionally, physically, financially. It’s an unprecedented situation and I’m flailing with the rest of you.
Here in Australia it feels like the end of times: Bushfires, floods, and now pestilence. Just, WTeverlovingF?!!
We are behind the curve on the spread of coronavirus/covid-19 in Australia, but our case trajectory is following a similar path to every other country. Theoretically it should be easier to manage: No shared borders, spread out population, good health care. But no. … Continue Reading
In case you’re not familiar with the term ‘elevator pitch’, it’s “a short description of an idea, product or company that explains the concept in a way such that any listener can understand it in a short period of time.”
The way it was presented to me in the corporate world was ‘imagine you’re in an elevator with someone you want to explain your product/concept to before the lift reaches their floor and the doors open’.
One sentence, maybe two. It’s only the start of a conversation but that start has to resonate.
If you can’t explain it … Continue Reading