Happy femdom story: D&S Part 1, D’s side

This happy femdom story starts with a scenario that may sound familiar to some of you: A good long term marriage where the husband has some submissive desires. He finally gathers the courage to tell his wife, and hopes for the best. This is about how that unfolds and what happened next.

This story is in two parts, and I’m absolutely delighted to be able to share both.
Part 1 is his side (he’s D), this is his story.
Part 2 is her side (she’s S), her story is coming soon.

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Author: D

My wife S and I have been married nearly thirty years, but our exploration of power exchange is only five years old. We were and still probably appear to be the most vanilla couple you’ll ever meet. About five years ago, I suggested that we give an F/m relationship a try and it’s changed our lives. It has been an amazing journey and has taken us places we never would have imagined when we first stepped down this path.

I honestly can’t remember a time before I was kinky. I was the kid who always got tied up while playing Cowboys and Indians in the back yard. When we learned knots at Boy Scouts, I soon discovered which ones were useful for bondage. I tied myself up more than a few times when I was young.

But it was a private form of kink, mostly hidden away and kept there with a certain amount of shame. For many years, I never imagined sharing my darkest secrets with my spouse. So many of my fantasies were rooted in porn. I couldn’t imagine doing these things in real life, much less describing them to S, who I always assumed was happily vanilla.

One winter’s day five years ago, I discovered Ferns’ blog, Domme Chronicles. I landed there quite by accident. I was looking for sexy fiction and found one of her many stories. I remember devouring her blog over a period of just a few days, reading not just the stories, but all the posts about what she called a “full time romantic D/s relationship.” Her blog was a revelation. It never occurred to me that such a thing existed.

One of Ferns’ most read posts, “When Your Submissive Says No”, had a particular influence on me. Here, for the first time, was a model for a real-life relationship that incorporated kink in a mutually desirable way and that was fulfilling for both partners. The more I read, the more convinced I became that this could work for S and me. More than just kinky fun, I saw a potential to improve our relationship in a fundamental way.

That day, I decided to give it a try. I started secretly, as many men in my circumstances have, telling S only that I loved her and that I was going to try and improve our relationship. Inspired by my favorite post, I tried just not saying no for a while, choosing yes instead. I did some simple daily service for S, filling the refrigerator with her favorite drinks, making the bed, cooking more often.

A month or so later, I told S that I wanted to have a talk with her. She was willing, but reserved, not having any idea what I wanted to talk about. I shared thoughts and fantasies long kept secret. I told her I’d like to explore a female led relationship. I gave her some stuff to read. Things blossomed from there, not instantly like Fifty Shades, but slowly, organically, and in fits and starts.

I wrote to Ferns not long after the day S and I had our talk, declaring that her blog “had changed my life.” I might have been a little excited. She wrote me a kind and encouraging note back, telling me that someday my story might be a happy femdom story. Little did I know that I had only dipped my toe into a deep pool that continues to envelop our lives to this day.
Our love story grows deeper with each passing day.

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This post is part of an ongoing project to share positive happy femdom relationship stories. If you’re in a joyful femdom relationship and have a story you’d like to share, I’d be delighted to have it. Please see my call out request for the details, and send it on to me.

If you like this story, you will love my ‘Happy Femdom Stories’ books :). Click the covers to get them on Amazon.

Happy Femdom Stories Vol 1
Happy Femdom Stories Vol 2

Happy Femdom Stories on Amazon: Volume 1 | Volume 2
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3 comments

  1. I heart this so much! The other part better be as good you tease or I’ll be so mad! Lol Getting only half of it and having to wait on the other half is like getting only the tip ;P

    I wrote to Ferns not long after the day S and I had our talk, declaring that her blog “had changed my life.”

    You, and your works, tend to have that affect on people. :)

    1. Bahahaha! Patience is a virtue. Or something :P.

      And thank you: It’s always so good when someone gets something positive out of my content. I cannot overstate how gratifying that is :).

      Ferns

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