Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #115 [Audio]

© 'Ferns Femdom Podcast' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

This fabulous femdom podcast is full to the brim of more of my pearls of wisdom.

It includes the following:

  • How to raise the topic of D/s with a possibly vanilla date?
  • What’s your favourite impact implement?
  • A domme wonders if being into D/s means she’s destined to be alone
  • A husband and wife have mismatching desires, so now what?
  • Do you think you might have an unrealistic ‘idealised image of a partner’ in mind?
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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #114 [Audio]

This stupendous femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • The bits where I answer some questions about my masturbatory habits!
  • Lovely sweetness from some listeners/readers <3
  • Is this a scam? (if you’re asking this question, you already know the answer is ‘yes, yes it is’)
  • Has a submissive ever introduced you to new kinks that you subsequently enjoyed?
  • Should I ‘top from the bottom’ to solve this problem?
  • How do I deal with power struggles in
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Advice for submissive men #547

I’ve said this a million times before and will probably repeat it a million more times before I’m dead:

Dominant women who want a D/s relationship aren’t going to be interested in a man just because he’s submissive.

Approaching any relationship-orientated dominant woman with ‘I’m submissive’ as your ‘tah-daaah’ trump card doesn’t carry any weight.

Dominant women are interested in a man because he’s awesome and interesting and funny and smart and compatible with … Continue Reading

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“I want to be an oral slave”

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Question:
Would an oral slave satisfy a domme?
I love and crave facesitting, pussy and ass worship, body worship. Would this alone satisfy a domme?

Answer:
Imagine, if you will, being on a vanilla site and asking a similar question.

“I love and crave facesitting, pussy and ass licking, body touching and licking. Would this alone satisfy a woman?”

Imagine, if you will, your sister/female friends/any actual-for-real woman you’ve ever met ever reading that, written … Continue Reading

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Femdom: Is this a scam?

Scam alert

Femdom scams are common. Soooo common. The truth is that if you’re asking ‘is this a femdom scam?’, it’s probably a femdom scam :/.

I’ve written about femdom scams a few times over the years:

  • This is what a scam looks like*
  • Scammers come in different flavours*
  • Should I pay tribute?
  • *Note: My older posts have not kept up with the fast pace of technology: As mentioned below, a simple, very Continue Reading

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    Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #113 [Audio]

    © 'Ferns Femdom Podcast' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

    This fabulous femdom podcast includes the following:

    • A big thank you to my Patreon supporters (because of course)
    • A sweet little happy femdom story (yay!)
    • Advice on getting into phone domming
    • Resources for a new Domme (tip: My non-fiction book list)
    • Should I consider a much older partner?
    • Should I seek out a pro-Domme for this fantasy?
    • How do I handle a serious issue with my long term dominant partner?
    • What do you like
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    Should I pay tribute?

    There are a LOT of questions everywhere all the time from new submissives asking whether paying a tribute is a normal thing when looking for a personal or love-based F/m relationship.

    Why do they ask this?

    Often it’s because they’ve already handed over some money to someone and instead of it leading to a meeting and the start of a beautiful relationship, it led to, you guessed it, a request for more money. Or they’ve … Continue Reading

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