I’m in a femdom relationship: Is this abuse?

This landed via my Ask Me page and I absolutely didn’t want to wait to answer it in my next podcast because it needs a timely response.

Hello,

I am in a 1 & 1/2 year old relationship first time with a domme who is also a sadist and I am a submissive and okay with a bit of pain play.

We are living in together & things were going okay but one day I was pretty late from work and didn’t pick any of her calls. Naturally she was pissed and when I arrived home, she slapped and … Continue Reading

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #103 [Audio]

Music by M.M.

This podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • New books out soon! ‘Happy Femdom Stories Vol 2‘ & ‘Rage: A Femdom Story
  • Using me as a hookup service (pro-tip: Don’t)
  • New Domme: Halp!
  • Submissive man introducing vanilla partner
  • Can a Domme be an extrovert?
  • Kneeling and knee strain
  • When he wants more (and more and more…)
  • Heathen chocolate?
  • Cock sucking sub: yay or nay?
  • Lesbian sub trying to find a Domme
  • And more!

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes, so you can subscribe to it if you want to be sure to get my audio … Continue Reading

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #102 [Audio]

Intro music by M.M. | Transcription by MFMWKE

Welcome to my Reader Q&A. Enjoy!

  • What questions to ask when D/s dating?
  • My sub seemed not to respect, like, or care for me
  • “I’m in love with my submissive, but…”
  • Can there be love after harsh humiliation play?
  • Online to real life transition when he seems perfect
  • The ratio, you know, RATIO *sculls drink*
  • Surprising little message from my ex-boy
  • Sweetnesses, thank you!
  • On forgiveness after fucking up and DFB
  • And more!

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes, so you can subscribe to it if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered … Continue Reading

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #101 [Audio]

Intro music by M.M. | Transcription by MFMWKE

Welcome to another podcast. This Reader Q&A includes the following:

  • How to find a dominant woman: (here you go!)
  • I don’t trust him, what do I do?
  • Sweetness & box girder bridges
  • Mismatched communication styles
  • Navigating new relationships
  • Getting her from ‘indulging him’ to ‘taking the domme role’
  • Dealing with subs who tell Dommes ‘how it should be’
  • Does he have “too many hard limits”
  • More ideas for punishments please
  • And more!

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes, so you can subscribe to it if you want to be sure to get my audio porn … Continue Reading

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #100 [Audio]

Intro music by M.M. | Transcription by MFMWKE

Welcome to a new Reader Q&A Podcast (which I have arbitrarily numbered so that I can number them going forward and don’t have to keep thinking up original titles each time :P).

Topics include the following:

  • Various sweetnesses (thank you!)
  • How to start an online relationships initiated by a sub
  • Concerns about particular fetishes (is it ok?)
  • What do you think/like about collaring/collars/leashes/kneeling boys?
  • Trying to find sexual chat online
  • Figuring out if someone online is real
  • Why is trust important in BDSM?
  • Where do I find a boy?
  • Submissive in unstable poly situation: What to do?
  • Being dominant when
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Reader Q&A: Healthy pain play, how do I…, F/m events [Audio]

Music by M.M.

This ‘Reader Q&A’ is over an hour long(!) and includes the following:

  • Telling a dominant I like that I’m transgender
  • You are shit at marketing (it’s true, I am!)
  • How do you learn to cause someone pain in a good and healthy way?
  • For those submissive men who are looking, some examples of your competition
  • Cuckolding: Is she still dominant if she gets dominated by her ‘bull’?
  • What kinds of fetish wear do women like on men?
  • Dominance to help someone get out of their own head?
  • I met a dude who’s submissive, now what?
  • How to approach D/s with
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Loves: 5
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Reader Q&A: Desire to please, LDRs, expectations [audio]

Creative Commons BY-NC-ND 3.0 markMusic: Bensound

This long overdue Q&A (aren’t they always?!) includes the following:

  • Desire to please vs hard limits, what to do?
  • Is there an outfit that says ‘Domme’?
  • How do I help a new sub who is struggling?
  • “She wanted a hands-free orgasm, so she tied him to the bed and used his mouth.”
  • LDRs and ‘how to’
  • I made someone fail their exams, maybe, I don’t know… :P
  • How do I get what I want after a change from ‘D/s relationship potential’ to ‘lovers’
  • What’s your favourite thing about tying up boys?
  • How to deal with a request from my Domme
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