My third Masocast interview, ‘Ferns is back’, is live (the first interview from 2012 is here and the second from 2014 is here)!!
I had so much fun and a lot of laughs in this long chat with the lovely [unspeakable]Axe. We covered a wide and rambling set of topics related to BDSM from vanilla dating to how I should just go to New York to find a submissive :).
I just wanna say ‘fuck you!’
Oh shit no. Oh can you imagine? Nooooo
I like to think it’s because I’m fabulous, but it’s really
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I had five social events and numerous phone calls in the week around my birthday. FIVE!
It is amazing to me that people want to spend time with me (I am a bad friend/daughter/sister etc, for the most part), and I am grateful for their perseverance, as much as I find the socialising exhausting.
I could pretend that the over-peopling is the reason I’ve kind of shut down, because I have shut down. But it’s not that. That doesn’t help of course, but it’s not the cause.
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Did you miss me?
YOU HAVE TO SAY YES!!
I’ve been without my beloved George, or any computer, for just shy of a month, and it has been Very Difficult.
I wasn’t doing anything too much different without George except I wasn’t:
- blogging or responding to comments on my blog
- chatting with friends
- googling anything unless I HAD to, no, really for real
- reading blogs
- logging my workouts / diet
- emailing with friends
- moderating on Fetlife unless it was super simple like
adding to my reading / gaming / movies lists
- doing life and book admin stuff
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I’m back from my overseas trip, hello all :). Ooh look, obligatory holiday snap.
My beloved laptop, George, gave his life in my service, suddenly having a heart attack while we were away. I took him to the PC hospital yesterday, and it seems there was no hope for him. So I am George-less at the moment :(. His hard disk was not damaged, plus I have backups, so I’m happy about that.
As a result, though, I’m resentfully tapping this out on my phone (I hate typing on my phone so much!).
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Random things I’ve said recently, no context.
I eat pretty healthy for someone who doesn’t cook.
For example, last night I had cheese and gherkins for dinner, soooo….
I appear to have burnt my face off
I never end up making it because I am a master fuck-arounder-er
I AM BRIGHT LIKE A BUTTERFLY, BITCH!
We got rocks thrown at us & chased by a group of men for kissing in the street
…my human skin will slough off and reveal the lizard underneath
YOU BETTER NOT FUCKING BREAK HER, BITCH!
Normal-socialising people are really nice
Bahahahaha. I don’t know
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Sometime soon-ish, the Masocast podcast will be publishing my third (THIRD!) interview :).
It’s been recorded already, but editing and post-production is a full time job (not for me, for the fabulous @UnspeakableAxe who creates the podcast).
We asked Twitter peeps for questions just before the interview and one was ‘what is your beauty routine?’ I can’t find that question now to credit the asker, but I know Axe did ask me, and I also know I didn’t answer it in any meaningful way (because it’s kind of dull and detailed and off-topic). So where else would I do ‘dull … Continue Reading
As all self-respecting introverts know, if you do a bunch of socialising, you need a recovery day. Or two. Maybe three.
If you aren’t an introvert, or aren’t close to any, that might seem a bit odd.
But I am one, deeply and to the core, and I can tell you, after I’ve cycled up the energy for peopling, and then socialised my face off, I’m an empty husk afterwards.
So today was a recovery day.
My lovely guests brought me chocolates, which were very much appreciated in my recovery stash (thank you!).
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