I should date…

I should… I should…

I should do all the things, all the time.

My brain punishes me with it. The things I should do.

One of the things is to write here, though I’m doing it now not to satisfy that ‘should’. I’m doing it because of all the other ‘shoulds’.

I have so many draft posts saved. 198 of them in fact. But mostly when I write here, it’s a moment in time, something … Continue Reading

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Femdom audio erotica: Meeting

I’ve mentioned that I’m creating femdom audio erotica over on Patreon.

Here’s an extract from the audio erotica story “Meeting” to entice you to come on over and join me :).

She held him there with a hand behind his neck. She rubbed her cheek against him.
She hesitated, then put her mouth to his ear and whispered, “Do you want to come upstairs and take some clothes off for me?”
She felt him

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I choose you

When I am talking to a submissive to see if we are compatible, if we’re feeling each other out, seeing how we get along, testing if we can make sparks fly, doing that whole dating thing, I always assume that he is also talking to, seeing, dating others.

There is no expectation of exclusivity there. I don’t ask them about it. I consider it none of my business. I assume they think the same about … Continue Reading

Loves: 15
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The Englishman

Note: This femdom dating not-dating story is not current. I found it in my drafts, and you start to see now why I have so many drafts…

He’s 6’3, 32, super cute, fit, intelligent, articulate. And on another continent. Which is par for the course with me it seems.

We have lightly corresponded on Collarspace on and off for a few years. More off than on. His profile popped up on my page again and … Continue Reading

Loves: 12
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Later that afternoon

Public domain mark'Bike, sea' by Unknown

Cycling north along the beach with the wind at our backs, the sun shining, and the surf endlessly rolling in, we could only just see our destination. The headland, far off in the distance, the salty haze making it shimmer in the distance. There was almost nobody around. Someone walking their dog, another person fishing, a surfer out the back of the break. Then miles of empty beach.

I always like the idea of a … Continue Reading

Loves: 22
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Nearly femdom-date with a maybe-submissive

Speaking of newbies, I’m raising this femdom dating story that has been languishing in my drafts since last year. It’s lingered there un-posted because I couldn’t tease anything worthwhile out of it, but look, when I’m trying to post every damn day in June, you get what you get :P.

I found a self-identified submissive man on a vanilla dating site and messaged him. SCORE!
Or, you know, not.

He was cute, articulate, seemed … Continue Reading

Loves: 12
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Liars and not-liars

Femdom dating is a crap shoot, emphasis on the ‘crap’ sometimes.

I’m not sure I ever wrote about the submissive in the US I said “No thanks” to.

He emailed me, was too young, had no way to afford even a single visit. He was just curious and wanted online attention and shenanigans while pretending he wanted something else.

After I said ‘no thank you’, he contacted me using another name, same IP address (amateur … Continue Reading

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