Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #109 [Audio]

This femdom podcast Q&A tackles the following questions:

  • Is this particular fantasy possible?
  • New sub still wearing chastity device from his previous Domme. Halp!
  • My wedding gift to my wife was a CB2000 as a joke (hint: not a joke)
  • Am I a foot fetishist or a submissive?
  • Do you have any post-orgasm torture ideas?
  • How do you feel about honorifics from submissives you don’t own?
  • Questions from an Arabic Muslim sub with an American Christian Domme
  • Is ‘breaking subs’ a thing? What about shaping, training, or manipulating ?
  • And much more!

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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #108 [Audio]

© 'Ferns' Legs' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

This femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • Cut or uncut, that is the question
  • How to get my sub to be more communicative
  • My submissive doesn’t initiate, help!
  • Scammers, boo
  • A certain type of play is causing him concerns
  • How to support your vanilla partner in finding her dominance
  • Resources for beginners (spoiler: My non-fiction book list!
  • Me telling a new domme to DTMFA
  • I’m really attracted to my sub, but he wants ‘MEAN DOMME’
  • And more!

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How to handle disobedience

My new book (coming out soon!), How To Handle Disobedience, is for new dominant women who struggle with obedience in their femdom dynamic. It’s a deeper dive into the approach I outlined in this post, “What to do when your submissive says ‘no’” (one of my most popular posts).

I’ve been around for a long time, and one of the reasons I started my ‘How To’ Femdom Series was to give down-to-earth practical help to newbies, both dominant women and submissive men.

Rather than giving some high level ‘whole of dynamic’ advice, I honed in on issues … Continue Reading

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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #107 [Audio]

© 'Ferns' Legs' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

This femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • Advice for a new femdom’s play (Tip: This book “How to make your first BDSM scene amazing”) :)
  • A happy femdom story!
  • How to find a Domme as an older submissive
  • How to prepare for pegging
  • Should I tell my therapist about kink?
  • Can you fall in love with someone you’ve never met?
  • On punishments: What if the Domme fucks up?
  • My sub periodically ghosts me
  • Should I forgive my sub?
  • And more!

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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #105 [Audio]

© 'Ferns' Legs' by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

This femdom Q&A includes the following:

  • Subs as footstools: What do you think?
  • Is my dom mad? Why does he want this?
  • How long can a man go without orgasms?
  • Who was your favourite fictional teddy bear?
  • Why not just choose a vanilla man?
  • Busted at airport security!
  • Public signalling of D/s tendencies
  • “I’m a right wing arsehole and submissive, soooo…”
  • How do I get my vanilla partner to be my dominant?
  • And more!

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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #104 [Audio]

© 'Legs' photo by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

Welcome to another episode of ‘Ferns drinks champagne and talks…’ Topics include:

  • Some personal questions (about fantasies, singledom & happiness)
  • How to find a domme
  • Tips on confidence for a newbie dominant
  • Why some offers of ‘submission’ aren’t as appealing as you think they are
  • Is this abuse?
  • How to punish your submissive
  • Sissies and cuckholding, a misunderstanding
  • A porn reading
  • And more!

Fun facts:
1. Those legs in the photo ARE mine, yes and
2. The ‘shut up and sit down’ voice in the intro music IS me

All me, all the time :).

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Concern vs infantilization

It’s great to be concerned about people, to care, to worry if you think they are doing something that’s bad for them. Of course.

But in the D/s domain, I see a lot of concern-trolling from dominants towards submissives who they don’t even know, and the underlying thought process is a patronising level of ‘poor little ones don’t know what they’re doing, they’re only subs after all, I shall gift them with my superior knowledge’, and it grinds my gears.

There’s ‘being concerned’ and there’s ‘infantilization’, and for me the line is in assessing situations for what they are vs … Continue Reading

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