Reader Q&A: Podcast #104 [Audio]

© 'Legs' photo by and of Ferns. Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE.

Welcome to another episode of ‘Ferns drinks champagne and talks…’ Topics include:

  • Some personal questions (about fantasies, singledom & happiness)
  • How to find a domme
  • Tips on confidence for a newbie dominant
  • Why some offers of ‘submission’ aren’t as appealing as you think they are
  • Is this abuse?
  • How to punish your submissive
  • Sissies and cuckholding, a misunderstanding
  • A porn reading
  • And more!

Fun facts:
1. Those legs in the photo ARE mine, yes and
2. The ‘shut up and sit down’ voice in the intro music IS me

All me, all the time :).

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Concern vs infantilization

It’s great to be concerned about people, to care, to worry if you think they are doing something that’s bad for them. Of course.

But in the D/s domain, I see a lot of concern-trolling from dominants towards submissives who they don’t even know, and the underlying thought process is a patronising level of ‘poor little ones don’t know what they’re doing, they’re only subs after all, I shall gift them with my superior knowledge’, and it grinds my gears.

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I’m in a femdom relationship: Is this abuse?

This landed via my Ask Me page and I absolutely didn’t want to wait to answer it in my next podcast because it needs a timely response.

Hello,

I am in a 1 & 1/2 year old relationship first time with a domme who is also a sadist and I am a submissive and okay with a bit of pain play.

We are living in together & things were going okay but one day I was pretty late from work and didn’t pick any of her calls. Naturally she was pissed and when I arrived home, she slapped and … Continue Reading “I’m in a femdom relationship: Is this abuse?”

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #103 [Audio]

Music by M.M. Transcript by MFMWKE

This podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • New books out soon! ‘Happy Femdom Stories Vol 2‘ & ‘Rage: A Femdom Story
  • Using me as a hookup service (pro-tip: Don’t)
  • New Domme: Halp!
  • Submissive man introducing vanilla partner
  • Can a Domme be an extrovert?
  • Kneeling and knee strain
  • When he wants more (and more and more…)
  • Heathen chocolate?
  • Cock sucking sub: yay or nay?
  • Lesbian sub trying to find a Domme
  • And more!

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #102 [Audio]

Intro music by M.M. | Transcription by MFMWKE

Welcome to my Reader Q&A. Enjoy!

  • What questions to ask when D/s dating?
  • My sub seemed not to respect, like, or care for me
  • “I’m in love with my submissive, but…”
  • Can there be love after harsh humiliation play?
  • Online to real life transition when he seems perfect
  • The ratio, you know, RATIO *sculls drink*
  • Surprising little message from my ex-boy
  • Sweetnesses, thank you!
  • On forgiveness after fucking up and DFB
  • And more!

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #101 [Audio]

Intro music by M.M. | Transcription by MFMWKE

Welcome to another podcast. This Reader Q&A includes the following:

  • How to find a dominant woman: (here you go!)
  • I don’t trust him, what do I do?
  • Sweetness & box girder bridges
  • Mismatched communication styles
  • Navigating new relationships
  • Getting her from ‘indulging him’ to ‘taking the domme role’
  • Dealing with subs who tell Dommes ‘how it should be’
  • Does he have “too many hard limits”
  • More ideas for punishments please
  • And more!

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Reader Q&A: Podcast #100 [Audio]

Intro music by M.M. | Transcription by MFMWKE

Welcome to a new Reader Q&A Podcast (which I have arbitrarily numbered so that I can number them going forward and don’t have to keep thinking up original titles each time :P).

Topics include the following:

  • Various sweetnesses (thank you!)
  • How to start an online relationships initiated by a sub
  • Concerns about particular fetishes (is it ok?)
  • What do you think/like about collaring/collars/leashes/kneeling boys?
  • Trying to find sexual chat online
  • Figuring out if someone online is real
  • Why is trust important in BDSM?
  • Where do I find a boy?
  • Submissive in unstable poly situation: What to do?
  • Being dominant when
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