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Vanilla Date #3, second date!
This femdom went on another vanilla date… *gasp*.
Let me catch you up here first…
I texted the Hot Older Man and told him I wasn’t in the right headspace for dating. After our date, I’d said be happy to meet up again when I got back from my break away, but it wasn’t feeling right. I was peopled out from peopling and was working way too hard to mentally build up interest … Continue Reading
Happy femdom story: Theriac
Theriac commented on a blog post here about his recent collaring and I invited him to share his happy femdom story.
I’m delighted that he did. It’s super sweet, and goodness knows we need more of that :).
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Author: Theriac
Ten years.
Ten years I went without a lover or a partner. I had friends and family, people I was close to, but no romantic partners. Not one.
I had known since I was … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #105 [Audio]
This femdom Q&A includes the following:
- Subs as footstools: What do you think?
- Is my dom mad? Why does he want this?
- How long can a man go without orgasms?
- Who was your favourite fictional teddy bear?
- Why not just choose a vanilla man?
- Busted at airport security!
- Public signalling of D/s tendencies
- “I’m a right wing arsehole and submissive, soooo…”
- How do I get my vanilla partner to be my dominant?
- And more!
The … Continue Reading
Vanilla date #2: Hot Older Man
The Hot Older Man is some ten years older than me, I initiated contact with him because I liked his active photos and big wide happy smile. We had a very high match percentage which tends to mean our values align. Among other things, he’s a high level martial artist, an instructor, so very lean and fit.
I’m not sure what to say about the date.
He’s not as attractive in person as his photos … Continue Reading
One week, two dates
The not-dates
The vanilla dude I asked out last year and who I nudged recently was also overseas, said he’d be in touch when he got himself organised (whatever that means).
The hot older man said he would respond ‘on Tuesday’ when he’s back from an overseas trip. I thought he meant the upcoming Tuesday, but either he meant THIS Tuesday (tomorrow) or he’s drifted off.
I didn’t reply to the last from the chisel-jawed … Continue Reading
Balance in F/m voices
It’s hard to write about the issues I have with the lines blurring between professional and lifestyle Dommes without sounding like I’m anti sex workers.
But I’m not. I think pro-Dommes are amazing.
I think skilled, ethical real-world pro dominants do an awesome and valuable job. The good ones invest considerable time, energy, and money into their craft, their spaces, their equipment and into making sure their clients get what they paid for, both physically … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #104 [Audio]
Welcome to another episode of ‘Ferns drinks champagne and talks…’ Topics include:
- Some personal questions (about fantasies, singledom & happiness)
- How to find a domme
- Tips on confidence for a newbie dominant
- Why some offers of ‘submission’ aren’t as appealing as you think they are
- Is this abuse?
- How to punish your submissive
- Sissies and cuckholding, a misunderstanding
- A porn reading
- And more!
Fun facts:
1. Those legs in the photo ARE mine, yes and… Continue Reading