Why yes, I DID have a little rant on twitter about how we educate new dominant women about D/s in such a way that we seem to end up with a completely un-nuanced dichotomy: Either you pander to your sub completely, or you’re abusive. With nothing in-between.
—Twitter link here (scroll up to see the conversation)
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Also, as like, a sub class of “feeling pressured to be put together” … Continue Reading
This stupendous femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:
- The bits where I answer some questions about my masturbatory habits!
- Lovely sweetness from some listeners/readers <3
- Is this a scam? (if you’re asking this question, you already know the answer is ‘yes, yes it is’)
- Has a submissive ever introduced you to new kinks that you subsequently enjoyed?
- Should I ‘top from the bottom’ to solve this problem?
- How do I deal with power struggles in
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I’ve said this a million times before and will probably repeat it a million more times before I’m dead:
Dominant women who want a D/s relationship aren’t going to be interested in a man just because he’s submissive.
Approaching any relationship-orientated dominant woman with ‘I’m submissive’ as your ‘tah-daaah’ trump card doesn’t carry any weight.
Dominant women are interested in a man because he’s awesome and interesting and funny and smart and compatible with … Continue Reading
Would an oral slave satisfy a domme?
I love and crave facesitting, pussy and ass worship, body worship. Would this alone satisfy a domme?
Imagine, if you will, being on a vanilla site and asking a similar question.
“I love and crave facesitting, pussy and ass licking, body touching and licking. Would this alone satisfy a woman?”
Imagine, if you will, your sister/female friends/any actual-for-real woman you’ve ever met ever reading that, written … Continue Reading
Femdom scams are common. Soooo common. The truth is that if you’re asking ‘is this a femdom scam?’, it’s probably a femdom scam :/.
I’ve written about femdom scams a few times over the years:
This is what a scam looks like*
Scammers come in different flavours*
Should I pay tribute?
*Note: My older posts have not kept up with the fast pace of technology: As mentioned below, a simple, very … Continue Reading
This fabulous femdom podcast includes the following:
- A big thank you to my Patreon supporters (because of course)
- A sweet little happy femdom story (yay!)
- Advice on getting into phone domming
- Resources for a new Domme (tip: My non-fiction book list)
- Should I consider a much older partner?
- Should I seek out a pro-Domme for this fantasy?
- How do I handle a serious issue with my long term dominant partner?
- What do you like
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There are a LOT of questions everywhere all the time from new submissives asking whether paying a tribute is a normal thing when looking for a personal or love-based F/m relationship.
Why do they ask this?
Often it’s because they’ve already handed over some money to someone and instead of it leading to a meeting and the start of a beautiful relationship, it led to, you guessed it, a request for more money. Or they’ve … Continue Reading