I’ve said this a million times before and will probably repeat it a million more times before I’m dead:
Dominant women who want a D/s relationship aren’t going to be interested in a man just because he’s submissive.
Approaching any relationship-orientated dominant woman with ‘I’m submissive’ as your ‘tah-daaah’ trump card doesn’t carry any weight.
Dominant women are interested in a man because he’s awesome and interesting and funny and smart and compatible with them and amazing in all the ways that a vanilla man they might choose to partner with is amazing to them.
It’s not ‘he’s submissive and I don’t care about the rest’. That’s not how actual-for-real human relationships work. I know: Shocker!
No relationship-orientated dominant woman in the history of the world has ever gone ‘Yeah he’s really boring and a huge arsehole and we have nothing in common, but wow is he ever a great submissive, so yes please!”
Has never happened, doesn’t happen, will never happen.