Nearly femdom-date with a maybe-submissive

Speaking of newbies, I’m raising this femdom dating story that has been languishing in my drafts since last year. It’s lingered there un-posted because I couldn’t tease anything worthwhile out of it, but look, when I’m trying to post every damn day in June, you get what you get :P. I found a self-identified submissive man on a vanilla dating site and messaged him. SCORE! Or, you know, […]

Loves: 11
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Do you know yet?

This is pure unadulterated ego, but I STILL think it’s true: A bummer with newbie submissive men I get involved with is that they won’t know how amazing I really am until they get some experience with others. Until then, they more or less think all Dommes are like me, probably better, because ‘internet’ :P. But if am interested in them, if I’m with them, there’s something special there. […]

Loves: 15
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Happy femdom story: Peter & R

This love story started on Fetlife many years ago, and is still going strong […]

Loves: 11
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Are ‘introvert Dommes’ a thing?

Yes, of course introvert Dommes are a thing! Also shy Dommes, socially awkward Dommes, anxious Dommes, quiet Dommes, depressed Dommes etc. Wanting a D/s relationship isn’t contingent on being a certain type of person. On either side of the slash. I am introverted, very. I think people often use ‘introverted’ when they mean some of the things I mentioned above. But that’s not what I mean by ‘introverted’. For me, I’m talking more of a Jungian definition (think ‘MBTI tests’: I know I know, […]

Loves: 14
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A braingasm of femdom posts

What’s the collective noun for a relentless bunch of femdom blog posts in a row? I settled on ‘a braingasm’, but maybe ‘an insult’, ‘an authority’, ‘an order’, ‘a shitstorm’, ‘a salubriosity’ (is SO a word!)? Anyway, I’M DOING IT THIS MONTH. The fabulous Hyacinth over at A Dissolute Life Means is running an #EveryDamnDayInJune blogging meme, which she does every year and which I’ve never joined. You can find links to folks who are joining in at the bottom of that post linked in the hashtag there. I like the idea of ‘forced writing’ […]

Loves: 4
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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #112 [Audio]

Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #112 [Audio]

 
 
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This fulsome femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:  NEW PROJECT ANNOUNCEMENT: I’m creating Femdom audio erotica! Partner wants me to be ‘more dominant’ Do you have advice for your younger self? How to introduce group CFNM play to my dominant Do you have a favourite type of nipple clamp? Facing ruined co-habitation LDR plans because of Covid-19 How to switch in the moment, any suggestions? Dealing with his performance anxiety Giving/receiving rimming: Yay or nay? And more!  The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and Spotify: Subscribe if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered straight to your ear holes. ___ Want to ask me something? […]

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