Woman woman

© 'Diana Gordon, Woman [still from video]'

My new anthem.
(THIS is the song I was looking for when I became smitten by Song Of Women and posted that instead).

Woman, woman
Got a whole lot of nerve, she the flame in the fire
She’s a lover and a fighter and a king and a mother
Turn a boy to a man, build a whole empire
That woman got a story
With her halo standing in her glory

Woman woman
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Later that afternoon

Public domain mark'Bike, sea' by Unknown

Cycling north along the beach with the wind at our backs, the sun shining, and the surf endlessly rolling in, we could only just see our destination. The headland, far off in the distance, the salty haze making it shimmer in the distance. There was almost nobody around. Someone walking their dog, another person fishing, a surfer out the back of the break. Then miles of empty beach.

I always like the idea of a … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #131

© Image courtesy of VanillaFreeSex

Note: This beautiful rainbow fabulousness in the image is NOT me. It’s VanillaFreeSex. NOT pixelated vision of her wonderfulness below.

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #132? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something … Continue Reading

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Sometimes, he melts

Three ice creams

As an additional comment to this long-ago post about my telling a submissive man I’m smitten by that he’s beautiful, about his reaction to hearing it, I’m surprised that I didn’t mention that sometimes, he melts.

Sometimes I say the words and I see in his response a wordless kind of breaking down, a softening, a downing of walls, an internal sigh of surrender.

Getting him to that unguarded state is not so difficult: It … Continue Reading

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My sent emails LVI

I normally don’t give context for these, but this one needs context.

I had literally not heard from this submissive in 9 months. In our last correspondence he’d said he would be up my way soon and I said I’d consider meeting. He’d also said he’d done a reading and offered to send it to me. Then he never followed up with either of those. In fact, I never heard from him again.

I didn’t … Continue Reading

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Should I pay tribute?

There are a LOT of questions everywhere all the time from new submissives asking whether paying a tribute is a normal thing when looking for a personal or love-based F/m relationship.

Why do they ask this?

Often it’s because they’ve already handed over some money to someone and instead of it leading to a meeting and the start of a beautiful relationship, it led to, you guessed it, a request for more money. Or they’ve … Continue Reading

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I’m creating femdom audio erotica!

Join me on Patreon

I’ve had this project ready to launch for a few weeks now: I’ve researched, planned, designed, created, angsted, redesigned, recorded, published, and recorded some more. I quietly told my mailing list folks about it, and I’ve been doing a ton of work. But I’ve been holding off on talking about it further because it didn’t feel like the right time to do it. I hate self promotion at the best of times, but right now … Continue Reading

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