Femdom ramblings

Long time readers know about my femdom ramblings, which are less ABOUT femdom, but they are BY a femdom so I’m still claiming it. I do these femdom ramblings from time-to-time when I’m struggling to come up with topics to write about because my head is fuzzy, but I still want to write something or I fear I will never put anything down ever again.

I’m very much trying to keep my blog a positive space, so I do not want to post negativity but I’m also somewhat struggling to think positively. I know without a doubt that I’m not the only one trying to manage their brainspace right now.

So this is a meandering check-in.

Hi, how are you?! :)


As someone who hates dating, I’m a little relieved I have an excuse not to make the effort. Not just physically, but mentally also.

Before covid-19 became a real threat, I had a couple of really lovely men in my inbox, very early chats, but I had to put our correspondence on hold because not only could I not bring my A-game, I wasn’t even feeling up to bringing my F-minus game. Even simple polite replies felt TOO HARD, too much like work, too much altogether.

We are in a better position here in Australia than many other countries now, so we are now able to meet up with people in bars and cafes and it’s relatively low risk, but I don’t feel any different. With the reality of visits to my elderly dad in the frame, I want to be extra cautious, so there’s that, but mentally, I feel constantly woolly, unfocussed, and like putting in the most minimal effort is some huge uphill battle. Bah!


My birthday is coming up this week. You know what that means, right? A birthday nude!!

I’ve been constantly assessing my mood for taking one in the last few weeks, and am considering wearing my dark blue pirate pyjama pants with skull-and-crossbones on them for it (the ones in this ‘Nightly Spanking’ story). They are old and wonderfully soft, and it just… feels appropriate for where we are right now. Also, of course, turning stereotypical femdom on its head is kind of where I live, soooo…

I will confess right now that I might not have the motivation to take a new photo at all (though last year, I managed it at the last minute, so never say never!). I might go through nudes I already have and see if any of them feel right to me.

Bu however it goes, nudity WILL happen!


Creating femdom audio erotica for my Patreon is working well in the midst of this brain-fuzziness. I’m not creating new content for it since it’s (mostly) the stories from my Domme Chronicles book, so the mindset for it is very different from that required to create something new.

The stories are hot and full of meaning and memory for me, and that’s an interesting combination for reading them out loud. I’ve not read most of them for years, and it’s surprisingly emotional: I get aroused, I cry, I laugh. It’s like they open some dam and I have no control over the flood of emotions that smack me full in the face in the middle of storytelling. Not every time, but some of them (still) hit me just right. It’s quite the journey.

If you haven’t had a listen yet, try Biting Him, here :).


I moved my blog to a new web host (thanks so much to the folks supporting me on Patreon for getting me to my goal for this). I’m SO HAPPY! That means the random outages that I’ve been having over the last month or two should be no more *touch wood*.

And when I say ‘I moved it’, I mean the lovely UnspeakableAxe moved it, so huge thanks to him (btw, if you haven’t heard it already, go listen to my last Masocast interview with him: It’s a lot of fun).

It did not go as smoothly as one would hope because IT NEVER DOES, THIS THING IS A MONSTER! But we got there and I’m now in the luxurious position of having a site that not only performs better, but that I don’t have to monitor constantly so I can pick it up as soon as it falls over. Huzzah!


I created an ‘all my links’ page. I know I know, you don’t care. If you’re here you already know all the things. But I did it and it’s pretty, so I’m sharing it :).

I created it so I can just add one link in profiles and such, and people can see all my femdom goodness laid out like a smorgasbord. Also, man, look at all those links: I’m fucking busy :P.


I probably have enough questions in my inbox for a new podcast episode *gasp*! I knoooowww!

So if you want to ask me something, tell me a secret, say something sweet, now’s the time. Get over there to my Ask Me page and DO ITTT!


I hope you and your loved ones are well and safe and that you are doing okay. I appreciate you being here, which may sound a little trite, but I know from my stats that I’m not writing into the void. I’m writing for and to you, and it means a lot to me to know that you’re here. Hi hi :).

I hope you punch today in the face. I have zero doubt that today deserves it. It seems that many todays deserve it right now. And keep punching until they do better. This is the only way they’ll learn.

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15 Comments

  1. “Ramblings” from a Femdom (especially you!) become golden words to a submissive! You may wander to and fro these days, but You’re still going somewhere … I prefer to call it ‘undirected study’ (puttering about works too!)

    While my Mistress and I parted ways early last year (it was a long distance, never shall the two meet) affair, but it lasted some three years, and went from just chatting to me being happily and faithfully being placed in chastity for four months (at the end permanently) at a time. I couldn’t have been happier to show my submission and please Her.

    Point is, that experience changed me, and I have now always looked upon and valued a Lady’s words … always looking for the off chance I could please again.

    Ramble on Ferns, those words are music to my ears!

    Can hardly wait for the PJ birthday picture!!

    Love,

    David

    1. Thank you for your encouragement :).

      Breakups are always a shame, but I’m glad you grew and changed out of the experience. That’s a good outcome.

      Ferns

    1. The title may, indeed.

      Though those who don’t know me may have expected ramblings about how hot and domly I am stalking around in leather (24/7 always!), about my non-stop focus on boys’ cocks (and how I don’t care about them while still making them the focus of everything), about my constant sneering with derision for I am all-powerful and y’all are beneath me (because of course).

      Sorry not sorry :P.

      I’m glad you found it entertaining :).

      Ferns

        1. It’s just non-stop, free entertainment over here.

          Wait, have you considered creating a Patreon account, so your fans could help support creation of all this great content?

  2. Drink more, this is advice from me, a Doctor (caveat by Doctor I mean I have a bag that has items of a “medical nature”) In lieu have a virtual hug
    Coug

  3. Happy early birthday wishes, if I should be out to lunch later in the week. Liked the previous years’ pics. Thank you.

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