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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #115 [Audio]
This fabulous femdom podcast is full to the brim of more of my pearls of wisdom.
It includes the following:
- How to raise the topic of D/s with a possibly vanilla date?
- What’s your favourite impact implement?
- A domme wonders if being into D/s means she’s destined to be alone
- A husband and wife have mismatching desires, so now what?
- Do you think you might have an unrealistic ‘idealised image of a partner’ in mind?
24/7 D/s vs FLR: What’s the difference?
There were some conversations on Twitter today about the difference between a 24/7 D/s dynamic and a Female Led Relationship (FLR).
An expanded version of my tweet-thoughts on this below.
The upshot: To me they’re the same thing.
My goal is a 24/7 D/s dynamic.
In my 24/7 D/s dynamic (when I have one), I have the authority in our relationship.
I lead, he follows.
There may be carve-outs that we agree on: For example, … Continue Reading
Womanizer vs Satisfyer: Showdown
Here we are with the most popular clit-stim toys going head-to-head (hurr hurr) in a full-on comparison: A Womanizer review & a Satisfyer review in one hit.
The models I tested were the Womanizer Premium and the Satisfyer Luxury Prêt-à-Porter. These are both the top end of each of the ranges at the time of writing. Other models’ features will vary.
Let’s start on the outside: The packaging for both is luxe in slightly … Continue Reading
Concern vs infantilization
It’s great to be concerned about people, to care, to worry if you think they are doing something that’s bad for them. Of course.
But in the D/s domain, I see a lot of concern-trolling from dominants towards submissives who they don’t even know, and the underlying thought process is a patronising level of ‘poor little ones don’t know what they’re doing, they’re only subs after all, I shall gift them with my superior knowledge’, … Continue Reading
Q&A: Historical (pre-2013)
The pre-2013 Q&A below was previously and awkwardly placed on the ‘Ask Me’ page.
I put them there in the days when I thought I wouldn’t get many questions, so I didn’t think it was worth creating separate posts for them.
Then the page just got longer and longer, until… well, it just got stupidly and endlessly long. Like over 13,000+ words long. Apparently it takes me 13,000+ words to figure out that maybe … Continue Reading
How great would it be if…
… the accounts with a label of ‘dominant woman’ that have obviously stolen super-hot pictures and wank-text would all hook up with the mindless horny idiots who drool over them.
Online-only, of course, because duh.
Those dudes could wank away together forever with the hot sexy chat and stupidity and be perfectly happy and leave the rest of us alone.
Case in point:
*’Woman’ posts hot pictures that are easily verified as ‘not her’ via … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom podcast #94 – Food things, ghosting & teletubbies [Audio]
In this episode of ‘Ferns does femdom podcasting’, we have the following:
- What is your star sign?
- Teletubbies question :P
- What do you think of ‘Steak and Blowjob’ day [on re-listening, I hate how I just went along with the premise that ‘Valentines Day is for the ladieeezzz’: This is what happens when I do the talking thing and can’t edit!]
- Have you tried sploshing?
- Alternative food-related label to replace ‘vanilla’
- Maaaaaaaaaaatt Daaaaaaamon!!
- Women on