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Kissing date
Kissing date: A date designed with the sole objective of kissing.
This is a completely different thing from a traditional date where the objective is ‘getting to know you’ or ‘doing something together’ or ‘sharing a meal’ or a combination of any of those things, where there *might* be some kissing at some stage if all goes well.
A kissing date is JUST FOR KISSING. I’m liking this idea for a whole bunch of … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #116 [Audio]
This fantastic femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:
- Post-punishment rituals
- Sweetness in my ‘Ask Me‘s! Thank you
- D/s Kissing 101, an impassioned primer
- Money is complicating my relationship: Halp!
- How many ‘great loves’ have you had?
- Can I maintain my masculinity and be submissive? (spoiler: YES!)
- And more!
The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and Spotify: Subscribe if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered straight … Continue Reading
How to negotiate BDSM play
One of the reasons I write my ‘How To’ Femdom Guides is because we talk a lot about the ‘what’ of BSDM-related things, but it’s very hard to find the ‘yeah but how do I do that’ level of detail in a way that we can use or adapt for ourselves.
There are many many reasons for this, including nuance and complexity and the fear of being ‘one true way’-ish, but what that means is … Continue Reading
The Englishman
Note: This femdom dating not-dating story is not current. I found it in my drafts, and you start to see now why I have so many drafts…
He’s 6’3, 32, super cute, fit, intelligent, articulate. And on another continent. Which is par for the course with me it seems.
We have lightly corresponded on Collarspace on and off for a few years. More off than on. His profile popped up on my page again and … Continue Reading
This, that, and that other thing
This is one of those posts.
Long time readers know the ones.
Where I haven’t written for a while, where I’m not having any thoughts really worth writing about, but I still want to write something or I fear I will come back to find an age has passed and my last post was in 1952.
When I get this way I do a general update, a bit of a ‘what’s going on over here’ … Continue Reading
Vanilla Date #3, second date!
This femdom went on another vanilla date… *gasp*.
Let me catch you up here first…
I texted the Hot Older Man and told him I wasn’t in the right headspace for dating. After our date, I’d said be happy to meet up again when I got back from my break away, but it wasn’t feeling right. I was peopled out from peopling and was working way too hard to mentally build up interest … Continue Reading
Vanilla date #2: Hot Older Man
The Hot Older Man is some ten years older than me, I initiated contact with him because I liked his active photos and big wide happy smile. We had a very high match percentage which tends to mean our values align. Among other things, he’s a high level martial artist, an instructor, so very lean and fit.
I’m not sure what to say about the date.
He’s not as attractive in person as his photos … Continue Reading