The last BDSM event I went to was with e, there were maybe 200 people there.
He is quite involved in his local community and knows pretty much everyone. Obviously, I didn’t know anyone.
We hung around together, whispering and laughing, having some drinks, talking to people, and at some point we drifted apart.
I spent some time speaking to a rigger about a book project he was working on while he explained in gleeful … Continue Reading
There is a perception by some out there in the world that dominants enjoy conflict. Maybe some dominants do, but I’m not one of them.
One of the reasons I operate better in a D/s relationship is because I *dislike* conflict. I don’t like arguing, I don’t like fighting, and I *really* don’t like wasting time on stupid irrelevancies that shouldn’t even be a ‘thing’.
I want a harmonious, happy relationship where my sweetheart and … Continue Reading
I was randomly sending foot photos that I found while I was trawling for porn doing important research to a friend of mine. He has a foot fetish, I thought he might like them. Each time, he came back with a shrug and some comment like, “Too much man-hand, not enough woman-foot!”
My lack of understanding of good foot porn finally had him shaking his head and remarking:
… Continue Reading“You have really pretty feet. You have
There is a three year old who lives in my head… she might be a little older than that, but I imagine her at about three.
She is a selfish, demanding, unreasonable, spoilt little brat. She is not interested in logic, in reasoning, in consequences, she just wants things and she wants them NOW! And sometimes she *doesn’t* want things and will kick and scream and petulantly yell ‘No no NO!’
She can be incredibly … Continue Reading
Here’s a secret: If you want to send sweet anonymous love notes to someone with a blog, then you can totally do it with cute Google searches. Of course, it does rely on the author of said blog actually *looking* at this search data at some stage. Which I really don’t. Until I am doing a post just like this. Then I find the cuteness:
“domme chronicles queen of awesome and teh writing”
“domme chronicles … Continue Reading
“If wanting some degree of intelligence in those I speak with makes me a cow… Well, then. Moo, motherfucker.”
That partial quote from someone’s profile (I didn’t note whose!) made me laugh so hard.
I am intending to use it as a retort when I get a ridiculous email:
Random idiot: Helo Mistress, r u want 2 fuk my ass?
Me: Moo, motherfucker!
Random idiot: WTF?! U bitches b crazy!
This thought makes me laugh … Continue Reading
I had my first Long Distance Relationship (LDR) before I even got onto the big bad world wide web.
Well, technically I had two before that, but this was the first one that started as an LDR in the way they do now, with some random contact down the wire.
I was in my mid-twenties, working for a large corporation. I happened to get my photo in the corporate newsletter (I seem to remember we … Continue Reading