Speaking of newbies, I’m raising this femdom dating story that has been languishing in my drafts since last year. It’s lingered there un-posted because I couldn’t tease anything worthwhile out of it, but look, when I’m trying to post every damn day in June, you get what you get :P.
I found a self-identified submissive man on a vanilla dating site and messaged him. SCORE!
Or, you know, not.
He was cute, articulate, seemed … Continue Reading
This is pure unadulterated ego, but I STILL think it’s true:
A bummer with newbie submissive men I get involved with is that they won’t know how amazing I really am until they get some experience with others. Until then, they more or less think all Dommes are like me, probably better, because ‘internet’ :P.
But if am interested in them, if I’m with them, there’s something special there. Something unlike anything they are going … Continue Reading
This love story started on Fetlife many years ago, and is still going strong <3.
Enjoy little slice of this happiness.
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Author: Peter
I can still read on Fetlife the first message I sent her, almost exactly nine years ago.
I had started exploring about two years earlier, newly divorced at 47; meeting people for casual play, driving all over the southeast, going to play parties or sessions in Atlanta about once a month.
Four … Continue Reading
Yes, of course introvert Dommes are a thing!
Also shy Dommes, socially awkward Dommes, anxious Dommes, quiet Dommes, depressed Dommes etc. Wanting a D/s relationship isn’t contingent on being a certain type of person. On either side of the slash.
I am introverted, very.
I think people often use ‘introverted’ when they mean some of the things I mentioned above.
But that’s not what I mean by ‘introverted’.
For me, I’m talking more of a … Continue Reading
What’s the collective noun for a relentless bunch of femdom blog posts in a row?
I settled on ‘a braingasm’, but maybe ‘an insult’, ‘an authority’, ‘an order’, ‘a shitstorm’, ‘a salubriosity’ (is SO a word!)?
Anyway, I’M DOING IT THIS MONTH.
The fabulous Hyacinth over at A Dissolute Life Means is running an #EveryDamnDayInJune blogging meme, which she does every year and which I’ve never joined. You can find links to folks who are … Continue Reading
This fulsome femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:
Hello One-Line-Email-Guy-Who-Wants-Me-To-‘Use Him’-Online,
On the remote possibility that you’re open to learning.
Dominant women on these sites get a million of these emails a day from random strangers who, let’s be honest, want to wank.
A one line email from some random dude (with nothing appealing in his profile, no photos, no site activity, or any hint that he’s going to be awesome) wanting online play is not a thing that is even remotely appealing. … Continue Reading
