I wish I could regale you with fun-hot adventure stories about all the dating successes I’ve been having while not writing about it. Or gush about the fabulous submissive man who has me all a-flutter.
But the round-up is kind of same-sameish. I’m sharing it less because it’s interesting, and more because this is what reality looks like.
I sent cold-call emails on a BDSM site to two submissive men who looked interesting. They seemed … Continue Reading
‘ How To Find A Dominant Woman‘ by Sharyn Ferns, Cover art by Submissive Guy ComicsI talked about my book already, but I thought I’d share some highlights.
Firstly, I have to say that finding a partner is hard. Finding an F/m partner is even harder. It just is. Not just for submissive men, but for dominant women also, I should know (feel like I should start singing ‘Single Ladies’ now…).
Trust me, … Continue Reading
‘ How To Find A Dominant Woman‘ by Sharyn Ferns, Cover art by Submissive Guy ComicsSome version of ‘how do I find a dominant woman?’ is the most commonly asked question I see from submissive men both in my personal Q&A and on F/m internet forums.
Information and advice abounds on the topic: The main difficulty for someone trying to get help, though, is that it’s mostly in little snippets in random places … Continue Reading
In 2012, I asked for photos showing the beauty of submissive men in all their many and varied forms.
My goal was to gather these anonymous photos and produce something beautiful with them, something that shows the glorious diversity and beauty of submissive men, all stunningly different and unique.
I received over a hundred different kinds of photos and I used them to create this tribute: I thought it was worth reposting.
I’m still working on the next book of my ‘How To’ Femdom Series (it’s ‘How to Find A Dominant Woman’ and it should be out soon) but in the meantime I am lining up my next project.
Long time followers of this blog will know that I started asking F/m folks for their happy femdom stories way back in 2011 because we don’t see enough (any?!) stories of real-life happy working F/m relationships and those … Continue Reading
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I contacted a couple of local submissive men on a BDSM dating site.
They said “No thanks” to me. Politely and pleasantly.
I said, “Okay, best of luck finding what you’re looking for.”
The End.
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Things I didn’t say:
“But why?”
“No, really, explain to me why.”
“You never even gave me a chance.”
“Pleeeeaasssseeee, please pleaseplease.”
“You’re really missing out, you know…”
“Fucking arsehole, no wonder you’re single.”
“No woman would want you … Continue Reading
