Submissive men: A celebration of beauty

There were over 100 submissions in response to my call out for photos showing off the beauty of submissive men. I cannot tell you how delighted this makes me.

Submissive men are beautiful, and my goal was to produce something amazing with the images, something that shows the glorious diversity and beauty of submissive men, all stunningly different and unique.

Thank you to everyone who trusted me enough to contribute their photos. It was an absolute joy and a privilege to receive them, and it was incredibly happy-making to work on this project. I hope that seeing the myriad of beautiful submissive men in the result makes you as happy as it made me to create it.

*** Edited again to add: I’ve also created a shorter, ‘safe for work’ version

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    1. *big smile* Thank you so much. I am so glad you liked it.

      It is such a personal thing for those who have contributed (and thank you again for yours, by the way!), I am hoping that they feel the same.


        1. I watched the whole thing just to see me, Which is a little odd considering I have the the original pictures… and a mirror.

          Still totally worth it, I’m gorgeous!

        2. @Tom: I’m NOT surprised, and you ARE gorgeous (you are lousy at taking compliments, though… don’t think I haven’t noticed…).


  1. That song is really nice – thought so since you posted it some time back.

    Also I was starting to get a little disappointed that I didn’t see the pictures I submitted of my boy… but then there they were… RIGHT AT THE END!
    Ah, I guess I’m gonna have to go kiss him for being beautiful.

    Thank you for this amazing collection of beauty!

    1. I adore that song, and it lent itself so well to this.

      “Ah, I guess I’m gonna have to go kiss him for being beautiful.”

      YES!! *laugh* And thank you for sharing him with us.


    1. @Cougar,

      Miss Cougar, you’re based in the UK, right? It could be that it’s slower to load here. You have to give it a good long time.

      1. *Raises an eyebrow* It dares to load slower for me! It WILL be dealt with forthwith. If only that would work with computers I could be the worlds first cyber domme thingie.

        OOOH it does work…well done all you boy for being so brave and wonderful for Ferns. Ty Pups for you advice too Miss Cougar eh I rather like that ;) Ah to inspire such devotion Ferns


  2. I’m so glad you used (and tweeted about!) my boy’s face pics. He looks so lovely and it really made his day to be told they were adorable. Thanks!

    1. *smile* Oh, he is yours?! Thank you so much for submitting those photos, and oh my yes… he is completely and utterly adorable!!


  3. Miss Ferns,

    That was wonderful.

    Thank you for the opportunity to show what we are.


  4. I love it love it love it love it! I feel all warm and fuzzy now :)

    Thanks for doing that Ferns. I suspect it has made a lot of people smile.


    *wanders off to go and torture / kiss her boy (can’t decide which)*

    1. *big smile* That makes me happy, and warm, and fuzzy!!

      “*wanders off to go and torture / kiss her boy (can’t decide which)*”

      BOTH!!!! Geez, woman!


  5. I love it! I adore the beauty of submissive men! Beautiful package all the way around. And of course I loved the pics of two of my boys…Mmmmmm

    Can I repost on my blog? Extra exposure is always wonderful!

    ~ Vista

    1. I’m so pleased that you love it, and I really appreciate that you shared pictures of your boys, thank you!

      And yes, please repost away!!


  6. I may have cried a wee bit at the end.

    Seeing my boy in there stopped my breath. He’s so beautiful and I hope that he, like the others, can see that now.

  7. Oh, Ferns…that was simply beautiful.

    I am quite moved.

    (mine watched only for a few moments, as seeing other submissive men doesn’t do anything for him – but I know feeling beautiful does)

    This is the best kind of porn. Real men who are adored.


    1. *smile* I’m so delighted that you were moved by it, thank you!

      “This is the best kind of porn. Real men who are adored.”

      I agree, the ‘real men’ part is so hot!! And I *hope* they are adored.

      Except of course for the single ones who are no doubt going to come wooing me any minute now. I mean… now. NOW!?


  8. Lovely collection, Ferns! I could watch it over and over again, and it’s wonderful to see the beauty of submissive males rather than FD porn images.

    I like your birthday gifts. ;)

    1. *smile* With working on it and editing and re-editing, I have watched some version of it over and over and it *still* makes me happy every time!

      “I like your birthday gifts.”

      Me too!


  9. Warm happy glow. I never expected You to use ALL of the pics of My boys. Thank You, this was excellently done. I see You have a hand fetish as well. Something about hands… vulnerable, or strong, sexy sexy!

    1. A warm happy glow is wonderful, and thank you so much for sharing photos of your lovely boys.

      And yes! Hands are uber sexy.


  10. Ferns You did a lovely job of showing off the different sorts of beautiful in submissive men. So the book and video will be available when?? *grins*

    Thank You for sharing!! Hope Your birthday was Grand.

    1. Thank you – I felt so lucky to get all those amazing images in my inbox over the last week or so… totally wonderful!

      And yes, my birthday was grand!!

      The book and video will be out in mummmble~laugh~


  11. Ferns, that was amazing. Thanks for using my photos I was really touched. I’m really happy that I got to take a few other ones for you as well. Thank you for all you do.

    1. No, thank YOU for sharing your beautiful photos.

      For readers: Gabrielsix kindly let me use one of his beautiful photos for my blog header (it’s the one with cuffs), and the stunning ‘peeking’ photo at 2:24 in the video is his also.


      1. I also have two other photos, the flexing in the mirror (with the two different colored walls) at 5:49 and the full body shot from the feet at 6:29. I’m very proud to be a part of all of this, now that I outed myself in the video haha.

      2. *big smile* Thank you for the self-outing. Uber fun! And um… oh my, you are quite the pretty (and built!) thing aren’t you? *swoon*

        As a note, the gorgeous full-body-from-the-feet shot turns up for me at 6:24 (just in case anyone wants to put the name to the beautiful photos, or you know, just have an excuse to be all pervey…).


  12. Ferns, what a wonderful collection! Congratulations on so many great submissions and for putting them together so well. And thank you for using the two photos I submitted.

    1. *smile* Aren’t the photos amazing? *happy sigh*

      I cannot tell you how happy it made me to get them in my inbox every day, and thank you to both you and your wife for sharing your photos.


    1. Haha one of my photos is right after you, great make up job by the way I have had two people comment on it since I’ve seen the video and shared it with friends.

    2. @Laura: *smile* Yes, he is absolutely striking! Thank you for sharing, and I love the ‘look, that’s me!’ that is happening in the comments here. It’s totally lovely!!


  13. Gosh, they are all so beautiful. Thank you for making something so lovely out of all those images. It may have been your birthday but you’ve given us all a present!

    Faile xx

    1. They are so beautiful aren’t they?

      And I have to tell you that between working on the project, and completing it, and now, I have probably watched some version of this about a gazillion times and it still makes me happy every time.


  14. Ferns told me my photo would be there, but I wasn’t really convinced until I saw it for myself. Thank you, Ferns. I love getting presents for your birthday.

  15. Aww man, I wish I hadn’t missed the call for photos. Lovely slideshow though! That’s the kind of stuff femdom porn should be made of, in my not so humble opinion.

    1. I’m sorry you missed it also. Next time!

      I’m glad you liked the video. I’d need a little more action before I’d call it porn though!!


  16. This is one of my favorite projects you’ve done! I’m so honored to have my beastie in it too! I hope you had a wonderful Birthday!

    I have already saved this in multiple places so that I can come admire them frequently…. mmmm manliness RAWR!

    1. *smile* I *did* have a wonderful birthday, and having wonderful photos land in my inbox for the week preceding it didn’t hurt one bit.

      I love that you shared your beautiful beast, thank you both so much.

      And saving it in multiple places is a stellar idea!


  17. By the time the final message appeared, my face was wet with tears of joy and gratitude. It was a special thrill, of course, to see myself and know that you were looking at the picture. What really moved me was to be included among images of men I consider my brothers. Thanks for this simple, priceless gift.

  18. These were… this was … everyone is …

    I’m pretty well speechless. This was amazing and incredible and everyone is beautiful and I want to go and do wicked things to my Pet right now :)

    xx Dee

    1. “These were… this was … everyone is …”

      *smile* Aren’t they all amazing?!

      I’m so glad you liked it, and if your pet benefits, all the better!


  19. Thank you for making this, Ferns, and thank you to all the men who contributed. I would like to tell each and every one of you how beautiful you are, but I don’t know you. But you are beautiful. You are so beautiful. We couldn’t do what we do, have what we have, if it weren’t for you.

    1. “I would like to tell each and every one of you how beautiful you are, but I don’t know you. But you are beautiful. You are so beautiful.”

      *smile* Thank you for that. I’m so glad you enjoyed it, and at least some of the contributors will read your comment here and appreciate it I’m sure.


    2. Thank you for those lovely comments. Ive been thinking about this since Ferns first posted her essay. I’m not beautiful, not by any standard that I’m aware of. Never have been. But I’ve read hundreds of responses to Ferns, and not a single one of them says anything like “except this guy, and the one over there.” Sometimes it’s difficult to take in new information. It doesn’t want to work itself in with what you already know. The toughest part is unlearning things you already know are true.

      1. *smile* I do hope so very much that yours is one of the photos in the presentation, dear anonymous.

        And you are right, unlearning what you already know is tough, and the messages that are given and reinforced and repeated are powerful, even if they are wrong.

        It sounds like least a little crack has appeared in what you know, I really hope so. I would be more than happy with that.


        1. *smile* I do hope so very much that yours is one of the photos in the presentation, dear anonymous.

          It is, actually. I should start saying I’m certifiably beautiful.

        2. “It is, actually. I should start saying I’m certifiably beautiful.”

          *big smile* This made me so happy this morning. And yes, yes you absolutely should!


  20. Wow, great video! I just watched it for the first time, and it actually made me tear up a little!

    Those guys are just adorable (and HAWT! Lord have mercy!).

    Thanks for sharing!


  21. OHMAHGERD HOTNESS! I’m wondering how so many of the men who comment are not otherwise involved because all of these photos were just amazing! Thank you for putting yourself out there for us, lovelies! And thank you, Ferns, for pulling it all together! What a beautiful display!

    1. *big smile* Aren’t they amazing? Every time I replay this, I am delighted anew!! Thank you for prompting me to take another look. *happy sigh*


  22. This video touched me deeply. I loved it and want to rave about it. I had contributed a couple pics, but then forgot to watch for it coming out. lols
    Thank you!

  23. I am impressed and in awe actually. I am a lesbian so I cannot identify with loving the beauty of a man much less submissive but I absolutely adore nude art when done to perfection. Very beautiful images portrayed actually and done with very high taste and class. Even as a lesbian I enjoyed it.

    sorry for mistypings my cell phone doesn’t like your blog for some reason lol

    1. Thank you so much for your contribution, and please reblog it. The more people who see it the better as far as I’m concerned!


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