Whee! Top 100 sex blogger 2013

I feel a little undeserving to be in the top 100 sex bloggers list this year because it seems like I haven’t really written much of interest of late (and goodness knows I ain’t gettin’ any sex to blog about!), but I DON’T CARE I’LL TOTALLY TAKE MY SPOT!! *shoves little old ladies and small children out of the way*. That makes it four years in a row! Wow!

Thank you to those lovely folks who nominated me and to everyone who gives me such wonderful support by continuing to read, by leaving thoughtful comments, by sending me lovely emails, and by asking me questions as if I know things. I really appreciate it.

Writing is one thing, a solitary thing, something that I do because I am moved to for various reasons. But of course, I could do that privately (and I do that also: Reams of jibber-jabber that will never see the light of day). But putting thoughts on a page and then out into the world is a different endeavour, and sharing those stories and having them resonate, or questioned, or validated, or refuted is where the value of this lies. And I can’t do that on my own. So when I say “I really appreciate it”, I want to all-caps it in big red font.


So really, thank you.

Here’s the shiny badge thing that I get to ponce around with now. It’s just like a diamond tiara! Only small and square and digital. If I print it out and wear it on my head, people will totally go ‘wow, diamond tiara!’, I just know it!

Top 100 sex blogger 2013

The full list is after the jump. Go and take a look. I expect you will find some familiar and fabulous blogs on the list, and no doubt you will also find some great blogs you may not have heard of!

1. Lady Pandorah from Lady Pandorah’s Sanctuary @ladypandorah
2. Jerome from Let’s Talk About Sex @NotJeromeStuart
3. EA from Easily Aroused @EasilyAroused
4. Anna Sansom from The Lady Garden Project @ladygarden69
5. Violet Blue from Tiny Nibbles @violetblue
6. Dick and Jane from Dick-n-Jane
7. Kara from Kara Sutra Reviews @Kara_Sutra
8. Lauralyn from Big Ugly Pix
9. Remittance Girl from Remittance Girl @remittancegirl
10. Dorothy Black from The Dot Spot @dorothyblack
11. Monocle, Redbud, and Ximena from The Erotic Writer @_Monocle_ and @_Ximena_Writes_
12. Penny from Penny for Your (Dirty) Thoughts @pennysblog
13. Lauren from Queerie Bradshaw @QueerieBradshaw
14. MsQuote from A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind @GoodDirtyWoman
15. littlesubmissions from Little Submissions
16. Blacksilk from Being Blacksilk @BlacksilkBlog
17. Conina from Exploring Surrender
18. SGC from Submissive Guy Comics @SGCposts
19. Shelby Cross from Shelby Cross, Writer @Shelby_Cross
20. N. Likes from My Dissolute Life @nlikes
21. Jayne from Diary Incarnate
22. John from John D. Stories @johndstories
23. Z from Pervertically Virtuous @VirtuousPervert
24. LS&M from Love, Sex & Marriage
25. Bre from Owned, Collared, Loved @Pandasproperty
26. Hyacinth Jones from A Dissolute Life Means… @adissolutelife
27. Santha Smith from Secretly Sensuous @SSensuous
28. Ruby Ryer from Pegging Paradise @Ruby_Ryder
29. Charlie Glickman from Charlie Glickman @charlieglickman
30. Cliff from The Pervocracy @pervocracy
31. Marie Rebelle from Rebel’s Notes @rebelsnotes
32. Renee Rose from Renee Rose Romance @ReneeRoseAuthor
33. Lady Cheeky from Smut for Smarties @LadyCheeky
34. The Sin Doll from The Sin Doll @TheSinDoll
35. Cheeky Minx from Love Hate Sex Cake @LoveHateSexCake
36. Seamus from The Wistful Sinner
37. Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life
38. Dangerous Lilly from This Could Be Dangerous @dangerouslilly
39. Lucas Brooks from Top To Bottom @Top2Bottom
40. Epiphora from Hey Epiphora @epiphora
41. Peroxide from Submissive in Seattle @Peroxide__
42. Axe from Unspeakable Axe @unspeakableaxe
43. Ferns from Domme Chronicles @Ferns__
44. Girl on the Net from Girl on the Net @girlonthenet
45. Joan Price from Better Than I Ever Expected @joanprice
46. Cammies from Cammies on the Floor @cammiesonfloor
47. Venice and Ryan from Fuck Blogging @fuckblogging
48. Kaya from Under His Hand
49. Desi Dassi from Desi Dassi
50. Jz from A Reluctant Bitch
51. Cara from Cara Sutra @thecarasutra
52. Caitlin M. from Sexational! @sex_ational
53. Maggie Mayhem from Miss Maggie Mahem @msmaggiemayhem
54. Marian from Creative Noodling
55. BD Swain from Leaning How To Tell You @redswain
56. Thumper from Denying Thumber @thumperMN
57. Panty Parade from Off Go The Panties
58. Jade Melisande from Kink and Poly @piecesofjade
59. Will from Lusty Limerickets
60. Mollena from The Perverted Negress @Mollena
61. Pyx from Syncopation
62. Sadie Quinn from Sadie Quinn @ladybugsadey
63. Chris McC from Stranded in Toronto @stranded_in_to
64. Kayla Lords from A Sexual Being @KaylaLords
65. vulgarvag from Vuldar Vag @vulgarvag
66. Maggie from The Honest Courtesan @Maggie_McNeill
67. Shon Richards from Erotiterrorist @shonrichards
68. nilla from Vanillamom’s Blog @swirlednilla
69. Wordwytch from Adventures of a Word Wytch
70. Anastassia from Diary of an Owned Slave @NatiraDarius
71. Dumb Domme from Dumb Domme @DumbDomme
72. Jill McDevitt from A Day in the Life of a Sexologist @sexologistjill
73. Fatal from You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain
74. lifeofalovergirl from Life of a Lover Girl @lovergirlslife
75. Michael from Malflic @malflic
76. Mrs. Fever from Temperature’s Rising
77. Tori from Pain’s Pleasure
78. rougedmount from rougedmount
79. Heather and Nikki from Vagina Antics @Heather_Cole1 and @Nikki_Blue1
80. Perverse Cowgirl from Hiding in Plain Sight
81. Property of Potter from Property of Potter @pottersproperty
82. Anakin and padme from Journey to the Darkside @AnakinDarth and @padmeamidala
83. John Brownstone from Southern Sir’s Place
84. Joe Johnstun from Sexy Little Ideas @joejohnstun
85. Hedone from The Pleasure Principle @pleasure_spot
86. Sangsara from Sexuality Sanctuary @sangsaraB
87. Shadow from Shadowed Seductress @ShadowedS
88. Gemma from Erotic Adventures @swinginggemma
89. TJ from TJ’s Take @tjthemadhatter
90. Scarlett Dubois from A True Unfolding @ATrueUnfolding
91. Adriana Ravenlust from of Sex and Love
92. Ali from Ali’s Addiction @AlisAddiction
93. Jill from Naked All the Time @nakedjill
94. Emma from Dirty Little Whispers
95. paltego from Femdom Resource
96. Catherine Toyooka from Sex Spoken Here @Catcoaches
97. bilikesscifi from A Tale of Bi and Bi @bi_and_bi
98. Sarah from Marvelous Darling @marvydarling
99. mysticlez from Mystic’s Mind Fuck @mysticlez218

100. YOU! As always, I want to leave a place on this list for ALL the awesome sex bloggers out there! So please leave a comment on Between My Sheets with your name/URL to tell us about your sexy blog!

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  1. First, congratulations and it was an honor to nominate you!

    “I feel a little undeserving to be in the top 100 sex bloggers list this year because it seems like I haven’t really written much of interest of late”

    I always find it fascinating how such an intelligent woman always fails to see the real value behind her writing. You allowed us a glimpse into your heart and taught us about the personal meaning behind language in “Hello Ma’am”. You shared warm memories in stories such as “Because I’m Happy”. You opened yourself and allowed us to see inside of you in glimpses such as “Vulnerability as courage”.

    You have made us laugh, cry, feel, and see many things! Never underestimate the power of your blog.

    *warm hug* and congratulations. I consider it an honor to be even nominated for a list that includes your blog.


    1. Thank you for the nomination *smile*, and thank you also for the little ‘this is your life’ moment: That was really sweet!

      Congratulations to you on your first year of blogging which coincides with your first year of being in the Top 100 list!! That’s no small feat!


  2. Your blog continues to be my favorite of all. It was here that I have learned the most about D/s and I continue to enjoy all of your posts. Thank you for putting so much into it.

  3. You totally should wear that tiara *nods wisely*

    Congrats Ferns I think I nominated you but you know me and this here internalwebby thing I may have entered you into Sheep Farmer of the year instead


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