Kissing date: A date designed with the sole objective of kissing.
This is a completely different thing from a traditional date where the objective is ‘getting to know you’ or ‘doing something together’ or ‘sharing a meal’ or a combination of any of those things, where there *might* be some kissing at some stage if all goes well.
A kissing date is JUST FOR KISSING. I’m liking this idea for a whole bunch of reasons. Not least of which is: kissing!
With most dates, there is an initial attraction that made you want to go on the date, but when you sit down and talk, you often find out that you really just aren’t compatible and the attraction dissipates as the gap between you gets wider and wider. You end the evening, go your separate ways, and oh well. But at the beginning of the date, YOU DON’T KNOW THAT YET! You just know ‘they are cute and seem awesome’ and a kissing date takes advantage of THAT magic moment.
With a kissing date, you meet up specifically for kissing. If you then move on to the ‘getting to know you’ bit at some other time and you find out that you aren’t compatible, well, fine, at least you got some fabulous kissing with someone who you were attracted to.
HOW IS THIS NOT A THING ALREADY?!
I’m SO making it a thing.
With holy-fuck-beautiful-eyes, in fact. Who I already know I’m not compatible with. But he’s hellishly appealing regardless, there’s ‘something’ there, and he’s so pretty, and holy fuck, those eyes!
Hello holy-fuck-beautiful-eyes [this is not an edit for blogging purposes by the way, I actually call him that *laugh*],
“vituperative” – this is the kind of thing that keeps me interested.
I think that if we actually talk, we would be completely uninterested in each other. I think we should not be attempting to do that.
No talk, we should just aim for kissing. I believe you when you say you kiss superbly.
I would like to taste that.
How do you feel about a date that is purely about kissing and petting:
Stroking, petting, kissing: yes.
Talking, fucking, orgasms: no.
He said yes (well, actually he said ‘why not?’), and added an adorable, “BTW, this kissing date, will this involve the blindfold? Oh, lordy.”
Why yes. Yes it will.
We are working out logistics which may mean it all falls down in a heap. We will see.
Kissing dates, man. Totally should be a thing!