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Q&A: Reconciling dominance and love
This from r/FemdomCommunity (edited).
Fellow dommes, how do you reconcile the need for dominance and power with the need for support and love in a relationship?
I’m fairly new to BDSM and have never experienced it in a relationship of any kind. I’ve had relationships, and I’ve played plenty, but never with the same people. I know others do it all the time, but in my mind I can’t envison how it’s possible…
Also, I … Continue Reading
A second chance
The 23 year old landed back in my inbox around the beginning of May, he had had a birthday, his profile showed he was 24 now.
He was a little cautious with me, but still the same articulate, curious boy. Just a little less bouncy.
He’d had a couple of service experiences with different dominants in the ensuing time, but said he kept coming back to our conversations, stressed how important they were to him, … Continue Reading
An inauspicious start
In February, a 23 year old newbie submissive contacted me looking for a domestic service opportunity. I don’t normally entertain the idea of service arrangements (not least because I don’t trust them), and non-romantic D/s isn’t really my thing.
But this boy was super polite and articulate and enthusiastic in the face of my scepticism. I grilled him on his domestic skills like some old dragon, asked him how he would clean glass doors, … Continue Reading
What’s a ‘service submissive’?
I wrote a bit about my view of service submission in response to a couple of comments on my last post, but wanted to pull it out and expand on it a little to specifically explain what I mean when I refer to a ‘service submissive’.
I use the term ‘service submissive’ to describe someone who offers domestic services (or sometimes other useful services) for their own sake, because they get something out of … Continue Reading
5 days with the cougarling
The rising sun was still low over the horizon, a warm morning, the promise of a bright day. An early swim and play in the surf. I leapt at him full force, trying to take him down in the churning water. He held me lightly, amused. Could easily lift me overhead. Playful silliness.
I left the water first, drying myself on the beach. I watched him stride out of the surf towards me, the towel … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A transcribed: Finding partners, kidnapping, spanking, threesomes
I asked my amazing ‘man who knows everything’ if he could find some free software to transcribe my last podcast for those who might be hearing impaired, or those who just don’t like audio.
He is such a sweetheart that he came back with ‘Yes, I’ll look into it’ AND THEN HE MANUALLY TRANSCRIBED THE AUDIO FOR ME *swoon*.
So for the lovely Coug and anyone else who prefers text over audio for whatever … Continue Reading
Top 100 Sex Blogs 2015: Top ten, baby!
This year the fabulous Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss took on the monumental task of putting together the Top 100 Sex Blogs list for 2015.
I’m beyond thrilled to be in the top ten. TOP TEN! I may have squeed.
In the tradition of all respectable awards, I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who reads my blog; to the silent readers, to you lovely folks who take the … Continue Reading