Mmmmm… odaxelagnia

Odaxelagnia: the paraphilia involving sexual attraction to biting or being bitten.

Biting is one of my favourites, it is impossibly intimate and can range from gently pleasant to terribly painful… yummy! I did not know there was a term for it!

Sadly the reference to odaxelagnia was removed from Wikipedia with the concern that it is a “Non-notable fetish”.

See, and people say sex blogs aren’t educational!

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Bedtime story

We are on the phone. It is late. He is tired.

“Go and brush your teeth, get into bed, and I will read you a bedtime story…”

He thinks I am joking. I’m not. After a few minutes, he is still talking to me… I interrupt him.

“Teeth, bed! Go on!”

He laughs softly with surprise, “Yes Ma’am!” and scrambles off to do just that. I hear him shuffling and moving about.

Presently he returns, scooches into bed, tells me that he’s ready.

“I’m going to read you the story, then I am going to say goodnight, ok?”

“Ok… but… what if I fall asleep?”

I smile, “That’s ok, it’s a bedtime story!”

“Really, you won’t think it’s rude?”

“No!… Now.. shhhh…”

He smiles… nods… settles into bed, snuffling and curling up.

I wait a moment for him to get comfortable, and begin to read.

I read softly to him, the story is fun, light, has childish rhymes in it that make me stifle a laugh… he snickers occasionally, snuggled up in bed, his eyes closed.  I feel as if I am wrapping him up in it tenderly, lulling him to sleep, petting him.

“…The End,” I say quietly when I finish, “Goodnight, sweet dreams…”

I hear a muffled and sleepy, “Goodnight… night…”

I hang up gently.


I love it when you read to me
And you, you can read me anything

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Shoe tower

I dragged all of my shoes out of the depths of my wardrobes and decided to make a shoe tower. Easier access, better ability to see what I had, a lovely choice of which to wear before I go out.

But but… after I did it, there was a messy pile of shoe boxes against the wall. It offended my sense of aesthetics, it was completely unacceptable!!

So, I ordered clear shoe boxes to put them all in, to make them pretty, you know I like the pretty.

So, below is the shoe tower ‘Before and After’:

I know, I know… you thought that I would have more shoes, right?! Me too! It’s not right is it? It’s a paltry tower… more like a ‘towerlet’.

Must. Do. Better.

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Submissive Secrets – a new community arts project

I suspect that many of you are familiar with Male Submission Art (if not, why not?!). It is a site that shows beautiful images of male submission that challenge the stereotypes.

Maymay (the founder of has now created a spinoff called Submissive Secrets. It is a community-based art project inspired by the PostSecret idea.

Submissive Secrets is a forum to tell the stories and share the thoughts, feelings, desires, and fears that submissive men and those who love them have in a way that offers solidarity, compassion, empathy, trust, sympathy, lust, and, of course, love.

The objective is to collect the stories of any male or male-identified person who is submissively inclined or curious; to collect the stories of everyone else who is attracted to, interested in, or supportive of such drives for personal fulfillment.

I’m unashamedly encouraging everyone to share a piece of their story, to make a statement about who we are, the challenges we face, the beauty we create in the world.

This is mine:

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Q&A – Nurturing

Original Question:

What do you say or do with your subs to nurture them, make them feel loved and supported?

My Response:

Kissing, always and more. Lots of physical contact, petting, I like to wrap myself around him, all legs and arms and skin contact. I whisper “Hello, beautiful” or some such to bring him to me, it is a checking in, an acknowledgement, a calling him home. Making him look me in the eye and hold my gaze, soft smiles, sometimes a ‘good boy’. And always, more kissing.

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