Dishevelled Domina has written a great post about F/m D/s relationships, drawing attention to the fallacy of female supremacy and female led relationships (FLRs) as the ‘One True Way of D/s’ for dominant women and submissive men to be in a relationship.

While I agree with the overall point (that F/m relationships do not have to be defined in any one way, except to suit the participants), and her preference is equality in her own … Continue Reading

Spartacus: Gods of the Arena, I am a fan.

I cannot believe I missed the first series, and yes, for all of you Americans who saw it 600 years ago, Gods of the Arena is JUST showing here now! It is in my calendar, Wednesday nights, I have an alarm set so that I don’t miss it.

For someone who doesn’t watch television (it is on, mostly unwatched sight and sound, I like to think … Continue Reading

Topic by secretiveslave, marketing by Ferns… (see what you are missing out on by not following me on twitter? I am full of teh internet wins!)…

* In case you aren’t aware, you have to read the dialogue from the bottom upwards…

The resulting outline:

*laugh* Brilliant!

Odaxelagnia: the paraphilia involving sexual attraction to biting or being bitten.

Biting is one of my favourites, it is impossibly intimate and can range from gently pleasant to terribly painful… yummy! I did not know there was a term for it!

Sadly the reference to odaxelagnia was removed from Wikipedia with the concern that it is a “Non-notable fetish”.

See, and people say sex blogs aren’t educational!… Continue Reading

ETA: Links removed as these sites are long gone :(.

I suspect that many of you are familiar with Male Submission Art (if not, why not?!). It is a site that shows beautiful images of male submission that challenge the stereotypes.

The founder of malesubmissionart.com has now created a spinoff called Submissive Secrets. It is a community-based art project inspired by the PostSecret idea.

Submissive Secrets is a forum to tell the stories and share … Continue Reading