I was right about him.
I was right to contact him in the first place. I was right to listen when he addressed my concerns about his situation. I was right to invite him to visit.
He is completely lovely.
I picked him up from the airport Friday night, his face lit up when he recognised me from my photos which is always a lovely thing (it is such a difficult thing for me, … Continue Reading
Y’all know how rare it is for me to have a date, so, yeah, it’s a pretty big deal.
I contacted him on a BDSM dating site about 6 weeks ago. His profile was scant, no photo, but for some reason I still liked it and sent him a cute note. He replied with enthusiastic sweetness.
There are a couple of things about him that fall outside what I would normally go for, but he … Continue Reading
I thought I’d post an update on what’s been going on with me. Mundane superficial updates totally count as quality blog posts, right? Of course they do!
Let’s see…
ghosting
ghost·ing \ ˈgō-stiŋ \
noun
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2. the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.
It’s been a thing for a long time, the origins of the term date back to 2006, and it was added to the Merriam-Webster dictionary in February this year.
What has changed, and what I’m seeing more of lately, is people strenuously defending ghosting as a perfectly valid … Continue Reading
I don’t think of myself as harsh or rude or any of those things.
Honest, yes (but not the ‘I’m just being honest’ type of brutality that people use to justify being an arsehole).
Forthright, you bet.
Sometimes impatient, sure.
Easily irritated (with strangers at least), yep.
But harsh? I tend(ed) to think not.
I had an exchange on a BDSM dating site the other day that both made me laugh and made me wonder … Continue Reading
I wish I could regale you with fun-hot adventure stories about all the dating successes I’ve been having while not writing about it. Or gush about the fabulous submissive man who has me all a-flutter.
But the round-up is kind of same-sameish. I’m sharing it less because it’s interesting, and more because this is what reality looks like.
I sent cold-call emails on a BDSM site to two submissive men who looked interesting. They seemed … Continue Reading
I contacted a couple of local submissive men on a BDSM dating site.
They said “No thanks” to me. Politely and pleasantly.
I said, “Okay, best of luck finding what you’re looking for.”
The End.
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Things I didn’t say:
“But why?”
“No, really, explain to me why.”
“You never even gave me a chance.”
“Pleeeeaasssseeee, please pleaseplease.”
“You’re really missing out, you know…”
“Fucking arsehole, no wonder you’re single.”
“No woman would want you … Continue Reading
