Y’all know how rare it is for me to have a date, so, yeah, it’s a pretty big deal.
I contacted him on a BDSM dating site about 6 weeks ago. His profile was scant, no photo, but for some reason I still liked it and sent him a cute note. He replied with enthusiastic sweetness.
There are a couple of things about him that fall outside what I would normally go for, but he quietly and insistently argued with me about the one that I considered a show stopper. He was convincing.
I was amused and impressed by his polite self-advocacy.
“You’re in sales, aren’t you?”
“I am :)”
He’s a sweetheart, a newbie, with some of those lovely innate submissive qualities that fit so well with me. He also has an optimistic enthusiasm that pushes up against my reserved caution and I really enjoy that.
He’s not local, but he is in-country, which is about as good as it gets for me.
He’s flying in this weekend for a two day first date.
I know he will be lovely, he’s one of the good ones. The big question is whether we can light a spark.
So we will see…
*I may be overstating the situation** with the ‘sexy sexy’, but sometimes you just gotta do it
**Definitely overstating the situation… :P