Femdom blogger EOY message

As a proper-for-real femdom blogger, I’m supposed to do a proper-for-real end-of-year (EOY) roundup full of stats and reflection and forward-looking statements about goals and such things, especially since it’s the end of the decade. Phew!

I’m not going to do that, though.

What I want to say in my last post of 2019 is this:

I am lucky and privileged to have this platform to write, and to have you, my lovely readers, to accompany and support me as I go.
So I want to say a huge and heartfelt thank you for being here with me.

My auto-tweetery recently threw out a very old post called ‘Love our lurkers day‘, which was a shout-out to those of you who quietly read along, maybe you listen to my podcast, maybe you follow me on twitter, maybe you buy some books. Even if I don’t hear from you directly: I see you, and I appreciate you. Hello :)! Thank you for being here.

To those of you who venture out of lurkdom (lurkosity? Geez spellcheck, what do you want from me?!) in different ways, maybe you click the ‘love’ button on a post (go on, you know you want to!), or comment on my blog, or ask me a question, or like/retweet/@ me on the twitter, it makes a big difference to feel seen in that way, to get the ‘me too’ and the interaction. That engagement helps to make me feel less alone, to see my kin out there in the world. Thank you for that :).

And to my regular engagers, chatty chatter-ers, @-ers, ‘like’-ers, and friends who I’ve found out here on the internets (or who found me :)), those of you who encourage my endeavours with endless patience and support, I would have jumped off this carousel long ago without you. You are marvellous and valued, and I can’t thank you enough.

My wish for all of you amazing folks is a happy, healthy, and positive year (decade, life!) full of love and light: I hope that much joy comes your way and you manage to grab it with both hands when it does.

Thank you for being here.

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28 Comments

  1. Many years ago I saw this highly intelligent FemDomme posting in FL; supporting newbie’s, offering encouragement, and even once came to my defense in a group. Out of curiosity, I started stalking your blog from beginning to end. I found myself completely entranced by the intelligence, passion, courage, and love you express in your writings for submissive men. I remember thinking “I have got to have this amazing woman in my life!” So I used a question you posed in a group I couldn’t access as an excuse and slid shyly into your Dm. I’ve been blessed ever since to have you as a friend.
    You are the voice of inspiration in the BDSM and writing community. It overwhelms me with happiness to see you grow my friend and I *know* your light is only beginning to shine. As a huge fan and a friend, thank you for another year!
    P.S Oh, and it’s just an added bonus that you’re still so fucking HOT! :P Oyyy at the pictures and even more Oyyy at the corset *drools*

    Respectfully,
    Mysticlez

    1. Thank you so much, Coug <3.

      I hope you have a wonderful 2020 also, full of love and cattle prods.

      Ferns

      PS One of my F/f (right side of the slash) friends wondered if you had any lesbian femdom resources (books, blogs, podcasts etc). If you do please drop some linkage.

  2. Hi Ferns,

    The more you show of yourself, the more beautifull you become :-)

    Thank you so much for giving us followers so much, it really means a lot to me xxx

    Happy New Year and I wish you all the best for 2020

    Love Tiptease

  3. 2020 will be as difficult for your fine self as for the rest of us.

    Yep. Nothing chunky or fun there ….

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