Random thoughts

I want to write ‘things’, but most are not worth a blog post (what IS worth a blog post, you may ask… fucked if I know!).

I don’t like how that feels, frankly. Sometimes this happens because I have lots of vague thoughts floating around in my head and I can’t grab any of them and make them solid, but lately it feels a little like my mind is empty. I have been doing some … Continue Reading

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FREE Domme Chronicles book: In hard copy!

Edited to add: ** Please note that the free give away is now closed **

The hard copy version of my book is available!!! Whee!! So exciting!!

Here’s the cover (the original cover didn’t work for print).

I’m very excited to have an actual BOOK in my hands. I mean… a real honest-to-god hefty weighty fabulous 466 page book!! I could smash someone over the head with this thing!
Domme Chronicles hard cover mockup
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My threesome

Once upon a time, in a land far far away, my girlfriend and I were play partners with a male dominant. My limits were no kissing, no sex, no oral. He was allowed to touch me, but I wasn’t interested in touching him.

My girlfriend had no such limits, and was astride him when I walked into the bedroom we were all sharing.

He beckoned me onto the bed.

I said, “No thanks.”

He tried … Continue Reading

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My hand around your throat

“I like your hand around my throat,” he said when I released his mouth and let him breathe.

So. Very. Hot.

There is an inherent vulnerability in the offering of the throat, the pulsing jugular, the potential for damage right there. I always thought of his hair as the most easily-grabbed, it was my go-to, my default, but having been with a man who suited a crop-cut, I unconsciously retrained myself. Now … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #56

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #57? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

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Emotional brain vs rational brain

Rational brain: “But but… he’s awesome and smart and funny and keen and attractive and and ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT!”
Emotional brain: “Meh”
Rational brain: “Well at least give it a good college try, I mean LOOK AT HIM, HE’S AMAZING!”
Emotional brain: “Oh, FFS, FINE THEN… “

*at some point a bit later*

Emotional brain: *shrug* “Yeah, I got nothin’”
Rational brain: “I fucking HATE YOU SO MUCH! WHY ARE YOU SO IMPOSSIBLE?!”… Continue Reading

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I’ll tumbl for you

Aw yeah, I started a tumblr: http://domme-chronicles.tumblr.com/.

“But why, Ferns?”

Well you might ask.

For the gaping void between ‘a proper blog post’ and ‘140 chars on twitter’ in which I am left flailing on my own with no social media into which to throw every passing thought. And because sometimes I just want to go “Look, LOOK!!”. Also, porn.

So if you are a tumblrarian, tell me who you are: I will follow … Continue Reading

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