I want to write ‘things’, but most are not worth a blog post (what IS worth a blog post, you may ask… fucked if I know!).
I don’t like how that feels, frankly. Sometimes this happens because I have lots of vague thoughts floating around in my head and I can’t grab any of them and make them solid, but lately it feels a little like my mind is empty. I have been doing some detailed stats work in the last couple of weeks and I fear that my brain has leaked out of my ears in the minutiae of … Continue Reading “Random thoughts”
Edited to add:** Please note that the free give away is now closed **
The hard copy version of my book is available!!! Whee!! So exciting!!
Here’s the cover (the original cover didn’t work for print).
I’m very excited to have an actual BOOK in my hands. I mean… a real honest-to-god hefty weighty fabulous 466 page book!! I could smash someone over the head with this thing! It’s available from Createspace and Amazon.
Once upon a time, in a land far far away, my girlfriend and I were play partners with a male dominant. My limits were no kissing, no sex, no oral. He was allowed to touch me, but I wasn’t interested in touching him.
My girlfriend had no such limits, and was astride him when I walked into the bedroom we were all sharing.
He beckoned me onto the bed.
I said, “No thanks.”
He tried to convince me. I can’t even remember what he said, but I remember thinking “What a patronising bunch of bullshit”.
There is an inherent vulnerability in the offering of the throat, the pulsing jugular, the potential for damage right there. I always thought of his hair as the most easily-grabbed, it was my go-to, my default, but having been with a man who suited a crop-cut, I unconsciously retrained myself. Now it’s the throat.
It is instinctual now, that my hand goes there. It is symbolic and thoughtless.
I really wasn’t sure what form it would take, but I *really* love the idea of providing an opportunity for submissive men and their partners to celebrate who they are in whatever way makes them feel good about themselves.
So I’m going to try an experiment, and we’ll see how it pans out.
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Rational brain: “But but… he’s awesome and smart and funny and keen and attractive and and ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT!” Emotional brain: “Meh” Rational brain: “Well at least give it a good college try, I mean LOOK AT HIM, HE’S AMAZING!” Emotional brain: “Oh, FFS, FINE THEN… “
*at some point a bit later*
Emotional brain:*shrug* “Yeah, I got nothin’” Rational brain: “I fucking HATE YOU SO MUCH! WHY ARE YOU SO IMPOSSIBLE?!”