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Being submissive can be scary
When I met my boy, he was scared, as many newbies are scared.
Scared that he wouldn’t know what to do ‘as a submissive’.
Scared that this D/s thing wouldn’t be what he expected.
Scared that the reality wouldn’t live up to what was in his head, in his imagination.
Scared that he wasn’t really submissive, that he was ‘faking it’ somehow, fooling himself.
Scared that he wasn’t really a masochist, that his fantasies … Continue Reading
Shit Ferns says #7
Random things, no context.
I’m piloting that potpourri right into a herd of puppies!! THIS IS YOUR FAULT!!
And no, really, a cock is a boy-handle, if you want to get technical
Vs dressed up as if your partner is a box of stupid and everyone wants to own the box of stupid
Because the internet is all your fault? THAT’S RIGHT!!!
… Continue ReadingIt will be done in your blood, natch, which must be blessed by
D/s flirting
Vanilla flirting is about expressing attraction and playing with it.
It’s essentially:
“You’re cute…”
“No YOU…”
And etc.
Flirting is fun, it’s bouncing potential off each other, even if there is no real intent. It’s about both parties feeling desirable and appreciated.
To me, D/s flirting has exactly the same aim, it’s just a little different in its execution. D/s flirting is about playing around with the dynamic a little bit. Similar to vanilla flirting, … Continue Reading
Happy femdom: Dani
This fabulous email landed in my inbox a while ago, and it was such a fascinating, wonderful story of discovery and evolution that I really wanted to share it. So with permission, here is Dani’s story.
Author: Dani
I just wanted to tell you thanks for having such an awesome, n00b-friendly blog and thanks for doing the submissive men images video.
The very condensed version of my story is this: A little less than … Continue Reading
Being sexy
I am not good at ‘being sexy’ in the traditional sense. Dressing the part, acting the coquette, doing that ‘sex object’ thing, flirting coyly. Yeah, I can’t do it. If I had to deliberately behave in a sexy manner, I’d fail horribly and embarrassingly. I’d be all ridiculous expressions and awkward clumsy movements.
But, I think I’m sexy. Strong, attractive, hungry when aroused. My sexuality is powerful when it’s fired up, and I think *that’s* … Continue Reading
Top sex blogger!
I’m delighted to say that I made it onto the list of the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012 again this year. Three years in a row: oh yeah, baby! *happy dance*
I know that some of you nominated me for this (and not just because I harassed you to do so, right?!). *smile* Thank you so much!
And while I’m up here on the stage accepting this prestigious award (solid gold, natch… this … Continue Reading
Random memories: Hiding myself
The first boy I ever fell in love with was a vanilla submissive. I have mentioned him before.
We are still in touch, I am pretty sure that I gave him this blog address at some stage long ago. I doubt he reads it, but I really don’t know and haven’t asked. If he does: *smile… wave* Hello there, A!!!
We were together before I had ever heard of BDSM, or D/s, or any of … Continue Reading