Note: This is not current, it’s a previously-written draft from my stash.
Against my better judgement, and with twitter encouragement, I offered to meet a submissive with whom I had exchanged only one email. I happened to be in his town for the weekend, and look, that kind of ‘hello, let’s meet’ works for some people, soooo…
I couldn’t make the meeting in the end, which meant we had a chance to email further and see if we were actually at all compatible.
And honestly, THIS is why I never ‘just meet’ men after an email or two. I don’t enjoy those meetings and if I’m going to do it, I want to know that there we have a chance. This vs making the time and effort to meet someone with whom I am clearly incompatible.
So after the get-together didn’t pan out he sent me an email that was so many levels of incompatible I don’t even know where to start.
Its not a deal breaker, but assuming we click, the interactions will be limited to occasional weekends. I hope you’re not further away south than This Town. That Town would be better :)
Now, what would you like to know about me to check if we are compatible?
Hmm…to my possible detriment, I will try to break the ice by giving you a bit of a verbal blab from the sub. I hope you will see a positive side of it.
Here we go…
If you want this to progress further, please take more initiative and stop thanking me for replies. It is off putting. I am drawn to women who are demanding, expect the world revolves around them and are used to get what they want, whenever they want it. What I want and how I feel is secondary, you do not need to be super polite.
As said on your profile, ‘I know what I want and lose interest if I do not get it’, well, it is exactly the same for me, and for everyone I guess.
Hope to hear from you soon. No pressure, of course :).
Maybe we should start by getting off the CS messaging plat… hmm…here I am, taking the lead again… I cant stop it…someone put me in place, please…
I appreciate your honesty. Unsurprisingly, I don’t change my behaviour because it doesn’t suit what a submissive wants. We have hit a clear incompatibility issue here, so I’m going to opt out.
Best of luck finding what you’re looking for.
And this, Dave, is why I’m single…