You read my profile, yes? For an MBA level educated man, reading a couple of sentences shouldn’t be too much of a stretch.
“…have been involved in submission for over 25 years.”
If this is true, then why didn’t some kind Domme teach you in the first 5 minutes that women really hate it when strangers offer themselves ‘to be used’? What we hear is ‘I have an itch and want someone to scratch it… you, oi you, lady, you, yes you… you’ll do!’ It’s hardly surprising that it feels objectifying and very offputting, is it?
If I am not looking for a submissive, as of course you read in my profile, and you do not actually want to discuss anything like normal human beings, then what is it you want from me?