Earlier this year, I had the privilege of doing a second interview with amazing Molly from Molly’s Daily Kiss for her podcast cutely named Kisscast.
I had my first chat with her way back in 2015, and we had a blast, so I was delighted to have the opportunity to catch up again.
We covered a lot of topics:
- Why I started blogging
- How my dominance started
- Discovering BDSM
- Feeling D/s as love and romance
- Service subs as the unicorns of D/s
- On newbies and learning
- Dating (ugh!)
- The story of Pissy Pants Pete and how that’s relevant to me
You also get to hear me wandering off to get another champagne while Molly narrates (I thought she would cut that bit out. Spoiler: She didn’t :P).
I loved listening to another podcast from two beautiful ladies that impact the community in such a positive way. I will admit to having argued verbally when listening to service submissives are unicorns. My first reaction was “Poppycock! These women have gone mad! I could SO be a service submissive” Then it got me to thinking *which I love*. I believe the reason service submissives are unicorns is because of the potential for feelings. I possibly could be a service submissive to a total stranger who I have no connection too. However, I wouldn’t want to be in a stranger’s house. Murder isn’t my kink. Being a service submissive to someone for example (completely hypothetical, of course, *cough*) I had a crush on then no. Despite my intentions of trying to be there just for the happiness of making their life easier, I would most likely subconsciously want to be around them.
I am feeling a little smug that I could answer the quick questions in the end with what I thought would be your answer and come out about 90 percent correct. *struts around*
And I absolutely love hearing your laugh.
Thanks so much. I’m glad you enjoyed it :).
“Despite my intentions of trying to be there just for the happiness of making their life easier, I would most likely subconsciously want to be around them.”
I’m unconvinced that anyone finds ‘service for a total stranger’ satisfying: Even those who get something out of pure service have to have some kind of ‘something’ with the service-receiver, at the very least some kind of dominant energy that works for them (i.e. that the other party receives their service from a place of dominance). Otherwise they could much more easily find volunteer work somewhere.
Liking, respecting, wanting to please, enjoying being around them, all fine and good for service submissives, but underneath it, the point is the service. In my experience, most who offer service don’t care about it, it’s just a way to get access to and time with a dominant woman while they are hoping (and in some cases, angling) for more.
“I am feeling a little smug that I could answer the quick questions in the end with what I thought would be your answer and come out about 90 percent correct.”
Ha! Clearly, I’m entirely predictable :).
Ferns, your voice is so engaging and soothing and agreeable that you could work at a garage, and turn me down for a tyre change, and I’d be like ” yeah, that’s cool. I agree. Good for you.”
And I’d go away feeling chilled.
“I’m just getting another drink because I must”.
So that’s not just an alcho-gamer thing. It’s legit.
I need to know about Pissy Pants Pete! Damn it tell me all :)
I’m the worst poster on this blog’s comment section. And I’ve finally actually realised that.