This is a ‘how to get rid of a Twitter shadowban’ public service announcement for anyone whose Twitter account has been shadowbanned long term.
I posted about my Twitter shadowban (what it is, how it works, and the wider issue for adult content creators on social media platforms), way back in October last year. My account was shadowbanned before that and had been shadowbanned ever since.
After trying everything anyone threw at me as worth … Continue Reading
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I HAVE MOVED MY TWEETERY TO A NEW ACCOUNT:
*** CLICK HERE TO (RE)FOLLOW ME: Ferns__ ***.
I’m following back and everything so come and clickety-click.
Note: Just to confuse you, yes, my twitter account name IS THE SAME AS BEFORE, but it IS a new account and you STILL have to re-follow me.
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Background story and bitchery: If you’ve been reading this blog (or other sex bloggers) over the past few months, … Continue Reading
My last submissive was long distance.
Our alternative for ‘I miss you’, which we said with increasing frequency and heart-aching sadness as time went on, was a whispered “When are you coming home?”
“When are you coming home?”
“Soon, baby, I’ll be home soon.”
I can’t quite remember if it came from this song which I adore, and which I had never heard before he sent it to me.
But today I listened to this … Continue Reading
Longo landed in my inbox with lovely compliments on my writing, and when he shared the fact that he was happily coupled up and exploring F/m with his wife, I asked if he would mind telling his story. He kindly agreed, and this sweetness is the result :).
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Author: Longo Afar
Dear Ms. Ferns,
Having had the benefit of so much of your writing, I am of course pleased to oblige you with a … Continue Reading
Yesterday I woke up with an F/m fiction story almost fully formed in my mind.
This has never happened. NEVER.
I don’t write fiction, I just don’t get story ideas like that, and long form isn’t my strength. When I’ve tried to force it (and I have tried), the result feels contrived, flat. I’m reluctant to say ‘I’m not good at it’ for fear of jinxing what I’m writing now, but I have thought that … Continue Reading
I’ve talked about the vulnerability of asking before, but apparently I have more to say on it.
Asking something of a submissive I’m talking to, expecting something of them, then paying attention to it, prompting them to do better: These are all ways that I communicate that I care. That I’m invested. That I’m trusting them with small pieces.
I don’t like to ask things of people. I know that will sound odd to some … Continue Reading
Snippet from fiction WIP by Sharyn Ferns