Birthday nude: Strap-on

“This toy makes me want to fuck”.

It does.

Kneel here. Get it wet.

Let’s get started.

My traditional birthday nude is neither traditional nor nude. I’m okay with it.

Wish me a happy birthday, click ‘like’ so I know you’ve strap-onned (is SO a word, and no I don’t mean ‘strapped-on’) with me. Oh, and send me presents.… Continue Reading

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My book reviewed on Cara Sutra!

Domme Chronicles book coverYou know I wrote a book of hot femdom vignettes, right? Of course you do! It’s over there on the right (are you seeing this in a reader? GET OVER HERE AND LOOK!).

It’s been positively reviewed over on Cara Sutra Sutra by a Pleasure Panel reviewer! So excited!

…there is a whole chapter simply on kissing; however it is so detailed and intense that it leaves you just as aroused and enthralled

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e[lust] #84

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Photo courtesy of A to sub-Bee

Welcome to Elust #84

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #85 Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!



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Reader Q&A: Femdom podcast #95 – Domme with vanilla-ish partner [Audio]

In this femdom podcast, a novice Domme has a partner who she loves, they are compatible in all ways, except for in kink. She’s not confident that he’s really into the BDSM that she enjoys and she’s not quite sure what to do about it.


Subscribe to the Domme Chronicles podcast on iTunes.

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Scaling the wall

When I talk with lovely submissive men, the ones who have wonderful qualities, the ones who I should fit with because they are perfect on paper, I want to tell them how to scale my walls.

If you’ve ever been into rock climbing you know exactly what I mean.

“No, up, the hand hold is there on your left, above your head. Yes THERE. And there’s a foot hold on that small ledge there, about … Continue Reading

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Hiatus from dating sites, then not…

A few weeks ago, I hid my profiles on both the vanilla and BDSM dating sites.

I got to a point where I no longer found the careless idiocy in my inbox amusing. I rarely got offensive or rude emails (how sad that that’s even a point to be made as exceptional), but the majority of what I was getting added up to a relentless onslaught of minimum-effort mediocrity from men with poorly written or … Continue Reading

Loves: 10
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