Real Dommes don’t…

I am recycling my own words for this post. I do that you know, because I am lazy (if you had read my ‘About Me‘ secret confessions, you would know this already…).

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Stabbity wrote a great post here about how ‘real Dommes don’t have sex’, which prompted me to comment thusly:

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Hey, Sydney University… here it is, come get it!

I recently posted search terms that led people to my blog.

I didn’t mention that “Fetlife Sydney University” or some iteration of it was there a few times. I didn’t mention it because, well, it’s not funny, but I thought I would provide a community service announcement about it, to help those people out, so here it is.

Many people put some version of the following text on their Fetlife profiles:

WARNING: Sydney University

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Google-fu failures

The following are my favourites of the recent searches that brought people to my blog:

  • why are there a lot of femdom sites and no maledom [this one made me laugh because I imagine the searcher getting here and going ‘oh, for fuck’s sake, not ANOTHER one!?!!’]
  • bdsm flesh hooks buy
  • cock masturbate cum resist throb unnghh
  • casual happy femdom
  • gentle domme matronly
  • spanking pyjama
  • soap making bdsm what is
  • ridiculous femdom look
  • porn video
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It’s all about me!

I finally put something more than ‘nothing’ in the About Me section here!

Because, you know, it’s all about me!

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Capable, willing and eager

Peroxide asked some great questions in response to my post ‘Sometimes, angels sing where I talk about the incredible vulnerability that I seek from my submissive:

We’ve all got walls (some of us more than others) that we put between ourselves and everybody else. How do you know that a sub is capable willing and eager to drop them?

And let’s just say hypothetically that there was a young man, who really wanted to be

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Where I have been

I recently completed a ‘trip map’, where you identify all the cities you have been to and they get pinned on a map.

108 cities in 38 countries.


I need to get out more.
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Shameless award grubbing post

I have done it before and dammit, I will do it again!!!

Go and nominate me for the sexiest bloggers of 2011 here so that I can show off award badge thingies and gloat about it… um… improve the world through sex bloggery… or something…

I made the list last year (see, see…? Bottom right there… ‘Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2010’… yeah, that’s me!), and you know, when people show off awards that are … Continue Reading

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