dave94 asked about this post:
“How does this end? Do the two overcome their missed connection and ultimately hook-up? Does the experienced domme introduce the shy newbie to the lifestyle and get him to fall for her?”
They are great questions! Tune in next week for… oh wait…
Come sit here by me on the bench while I tell you of my little dilemma…
It is easy to write about a boy I am already in a relationship with, anything I write might give him a further insight into what I am thinking, but it will not be news to him. If I write about something difficult or troubling, I will not do so until we have resolved it.
However, when I am single like I am now, and I meet someone, maybe at a social gathering, and maybe we have a date and maybe we are talking, and maybe it progresses, or doesn’t, I *cannot* write about it until it is resolved either way because he will read about it here, and that is difficult and unfair, and it also influences the outcome in an odd way.
It is rather tricky, really.
I do wonder how other bloggers deal with this (dear reader-bloggers, please pipe up!). Are you so anonymous that any potentials are not aware of your blog, so you have the freedom to write what you like without impacting them one way or another? That level of anonymity changes things, gives you a freedom, obviously, but it is not the case with me. Any boy I meet will know of this blog because I link to it from BDSM sites where I make these contacts, so reading about himself here (“What a rubbish date!”… “Oh my, that perfect arse, I just wanted to…” etc) is messy.
Do any of you have this problem, or is it only me who has created this issue for myself?