Happy Femdom Story: Mundane Brilliance

I am so excited! A happy femdom story. YAAAASSSS!! I haven’t had one on the blog for ages, and this story is a complete delight and I’m so happy to share it. We all have different paths and sometimes they are difficult and drawn out, but when you end up where you are supposed to be, you know it all played out as it needed to. […]

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Happy femdom story – TheDV & TheDVsFox

I’m so delighted to share another wonderful story from a happy femdom couple who found each other on Collarme.com (now Collarspace) some 7 years ago and never looked back. Heartwarming and lovely and happily-ever-after-ish *happy sigh*.  Author: TheDV I moved to Tennessee in January of 2007 to be closer to my slave a the time, Angel. He and I had a rocky relationship face to face that did not translate well from what we had online. […]

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Word power

When I first told him to call me ‘Ma’am’, he wasn’t happy about it. It made him uncomfortable. He LIKED using my name. He half heartedly protested.  “But ‘Sharyn’ has come to mean ‘Ma’am’ to me…” he said. “That’s what it MEANS.” I didn’t change my mind though, and he dutifully started using it. Awkwardly at first. […]

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My heart is small and dark

Compersion (n): A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship. Referred to mostly in poly or open relationships. I don’t feel it. Ever. I am not a kind or giving person that way. I am selfish and greedy. Possessive. What’s mine is mine and you can’t have any of it. […]

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Is it play acting?

“…is there some “playacting” there with the de riguer props (whips and crops, bindings and gags, collar and leash) and the formalized play of rituals; the sub speaking only when spoken to or given permission, lowering of his eyes and made to kneel, bowing down…?” I think I understand what you are getting at, but ‘play acting’ rubs me up the wrong way. […]

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Happy femdom story – Alexandra

Alexandra is a young dominant from Greece who sent me this very sweet story of meeting and exploring BDSM with her boyfriend. I love that she has found someone she trusts to explore this with.  It makes me smile: it’s truly lovely.  Author: Alexandra I’ll admit that I, too, am one of those little girls who read Fifty Shades of Grey and suddenly got into BDSM and all that. […]

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Happy femdom story – Wheldrake

I haven’t received a happy femdom story in my inbox for so long. I do love them so. This is a story of remote connection and D/s that was born out of a shared love of words and, unlike many other happy femdom stories I’ve shared it, is one that illustrates that D/s relationships do not have to be about romance to thrive and grow and to make the participants happy. […]

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Do what you say you will do

I’ve said this before in different ways, but I’m going to say it again. What I expect from potential submissives, or even submissive men I am just flirting with, is that they do what they say they will do. Every time. Reliably. Without fail. Hell, I apply that rule to everyone, but with *other* people, I don’t really care either way. […]

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