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I get oddly stressed when I lose the inspiration to write. Either I don’t have anything I want to say, or I have so many things that I can’t nail any of them down and make them come to life. Lately, it’s been the former. I know it’s no big deal, it will come back, but the feeling is disconcerting. Like there’s a void that I fear will just get bigger and bigger.
So here’s … Continue Reading
Reader QnA: Relationships and new starts
I’m answering Q&As from my Ask Me page. So, let’s go.
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Hello!
How does an older, mature submissive find an attractive female dominant close to his own age?
I am 69 years old, and basically a service submissive and masochist, who has a few fantasies, but nothing too extreme. I have been into the scene since my late teens.
It’s not that I haven’t tried, but like many of us, I had issues with … Continue Reading
Random thoughts
I want to write ‘things’, but most are not worth a blog post (what IS worth a blog post, you may ask… fucked if I know!).
I don’t like how that feels, frankly. Sometimes this happens because I have lots of vague thoughts floating around in my head and I can’t grab any of them and make them solid, but lately it feels a little like my mind is empty. I have been doing some … Continue Reading
Reader QnA: How does a sub say no?
How does a sub say no at all. I read you blog entry on what to do if your sub says no but a harder question for a sub is how do you say no. Numerous times I have had very bad experiences because I didn’t feel I could deny my partner.
Recently My Lady put me through a scene that was several hours long. It was something I knew I would not enjoy but … Continue Reading
Random memories: Eclectic
Laying back in the bathtub, having my hair washed and conditioned, strong fingers massaging my scalp while I close my eyes and think of others.
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I see myself as an indelible mark on those I’ve loved, stronger and deeper probably, than what is really there because my imagining is borne out of arrogance and ego, and yet I think it’s true, even while I admonish myself.
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The first boy who loved me did … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Energy in play and kissing dates
Advice and thoughts on nicknames, getting your needs met, building energy in play, and the intricacies of kissing dates.
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Hey there,
I’m an aspiring Domme. But I haven’t found a name I’m happy with yet. Any suggestions?
Thanks!
~Goddess _________
Hello there!
*smile* You are starting your name with ‘Goddess’ and you are asking someone who goes by ‘Ferns’. I think I can safely say “I got nothin'”.
My only advice is to pick … Continue Reading
MOAR amazing book reviews
I am so very delighted that I have received some more wonderful book reviews. Incredible happies!!
On Amazon, this fabulous review *smile*:
… Continue ReadingThis is a must-read
I can’t love this enough. The writing is marvellous, sometimes sweet and sometimes raw. These stories aren’t *just* hot (though they are very sexy). Ferns lets us dive into moments of stunning intensity and intimacy. She shows a version of D/s largely missing from portrayals of BDSM: