I wrote this post earlier about how some people call lovely, attentive, considerate behaviour from a man ‘submissive’ instead of thinking of it simply as the behaviour of a fabulous man in love.
I coined the term ‘vanilla submissive’ to refer to vanilla men I have been with whose behaviour is pretty much exactly what I expect from my submissive. Only, they weren’t my submissive.
The comments on my previous post were lively and quite … Continue Reading
User names are like a signature on the internet or in the community. I figure if you chose it, you did so to specifically and unequivocally communicate something about yourself.
That being the case, many are a complete turn off for me.
If a submale has a user name that communicates an icky message, he is going to have to work *extra* hard to make me believe he’s actually an intelligent, thinking human being.
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I save D/s images that I find and fall a little in love with… Mostly the ones I love are terribly romantic, and I don’t normally share them, but this one was so perfectly lovely that I couldn’t resist going “Look… LOOK!!!”
I found it on the fabulous Fuck Yeah Male Submission!tumblr.
… Continue ReadingI often hear people describe behaviours that they consider to be indicative of a great submissive, but when I think about it for a moment, they often aren’t. What they are describing is often the behaviour of a wonderful, quality man. Perhaps a man in love, or in lust, or infatuated, or one who is trying to impress a date or one who is simply one of those lovely creatures who likes doing things for … Continue Reading
I think of D/s flirting sometimes like throwing spiderweb silk in his direction, and these delicate filaments stick to him, sometimes inadvertently, perhaps he doesn’t even realise that this light gossamer thread has even landed on him, much less that it has attached itself. But sometimes, he sees it clearly, will catch it, examine it, tiny and harmless, then look me directly in the eye and deliberately stick it to himself (see, that image there … Continue Reading
I headed down to the beach today. There is a path directly across from my new apartment.
Apart from just… well… walking on the beach (yay!), this made me so happy, I had to go back and get my camera to take photos:
*laugh* What kinds of awesome?
Step 1: Find somewhere else to live (yay, exciting!)
Step 2: Apply for tenancy, get the go ahead
Step 3: Plan the move, create a spreadsheet with a to-do list (geekery!)
Step 4: Do paperwork for exiting current apartment, redirecting mail, cutting off and connecting utilities, informing a gazillion organisations (each of these requires at least an hour of frustration)
Step 5: Co-ordinate and get quotes for moving, cleaning, carpet steaming, assess quotes and confirm … Continue Reading