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I’d much rather feel angry than sad.

But now it seems like I’ve expended all this anger on my book, and I’ve used up all the spiky energy it gave me. Doing the work required to get it published in the next few days feels like wading through treacle in a fog.

What’s left in the aftermath of all that rage is a profound sadness that I’m struggling to shake.

The sadness feels more personal than the anger. It is more personal. Anger rages outwards, sadness looks inward.

I have some valid reasons to be sad, but the weariness … Continue Reading

Loves: 20
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Happy femdom story: Samantha

Happy Femdom Stories Vol 1
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If you like this story, you will love my books of Happy Femdom Stories: Volume 1 | Volume 2

I somehow managed to lose track of this short sweet little contribution in my drafts (okay, fine, I have 187 drafts, so it’s not entirely surprising…): I’m so sorry, Samantha!

Here folks, have some happies :).

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Author: Samantha

How did you meet?

OkCupid…but I was only looking for friends at the time. Which we were…for three years because he didn’t tell me he liked me, and everything in our relationship happened because I pursued him–I messaged first, I propositioned sex … Continue Reading

Loves: 4
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Rage: Retribution – Cover reveal

A malignant narcissist brings a country to its knees.
One angry femdom has had enough.
By the time she’s done with him, she will have changed everything.

I’m delighted to give you the first look at the cover for ‘Rage: Retribution’ (well, fine: the second look for anyone who’s on my mailing list since you’ve seen it already :)).

About the book

A millionaire reality-TV star somehow becomes president. He unleashes a new age of ignorance and hatred upon the country, tainting everything he touches with his own particular flavour of corruption and greed. He lies to the people, applauds … Continue Reading

Loves: 6
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My sent emails L

[He (re-)introduced himself with the line “How is it possible that you are still single?”, then asked if we could be ‘friends’ (again)]

Hello dude-I-haven’t-spoken-to-in-ages-who-suddenly-wants-to-be-friends,

I remember chatting to you.

I seem to recall you had quite the interest in boots or shoes and incessantly returned to it as a topic of conversation. When I redirected the conversation to more interesting topics, you bailed.

That was fine with me, no big deal. It was a casual chat, and of course nobody wants to spend time on exchanges that aren’t interesting to them. I harbour no bad feelings about it, … Continue Reading

Loves: 8
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e[lust] #112

Welcome to Elust 112

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #113? Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Broken Idol

So Your Partner Has Feelings for Someone Else

Vagina, vag-OWW-NO

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Responsibilities of erotic fiction characters
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‘Rage’ is not a femdom story

Truth be told, I’m not sure where to put this.

So of course, I’m putting it here.

I originally thought of my new (work-in-progress) fiction book, ‘Rage’, as ‘a femdom story’. In fact, I originally called it ‘Rage: A Femdom Story‘.

But this book is ‘a story about femdom’ in the same way that ‘A Clockwork Orange’ is ‘a story about clocks’.

I’m a dominant woman and the protagonist in the book is ‘alternative-universe-me’: Also a dominant woman who uses the ‘tools of BDSM’ (restraints, canes, force, pain etc) to express and exorcise unfathomable anger.

The book … Continue Reading

Loves: 12
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I’m in a femdom relationship: Is this abuse?

This landed via my Ask Me page and I absolutely didn’t want to wait to answer it in my next podcast because it needs a timely response.

Hello,

I am in a 1 & 1/2 year old relationship first time with a domme who is also a sadist and I am a submissive and okay with a bit of pain play.

We are living in together & things were going okay but one day I was pretty late from work and didn’t pick any of her calls. Naturally she was pissed and when I arrived home, she slapped and … Continue Reading

Loves: 21
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