On using him

I get asked what my fantasies are relatively often. I think people expect to hear something relateable, something familiar, sexy, BDSM-ey, something doable.

But what I fantasise about, what I REALLY like and fantasise about, is to do what I want. To genuinely and honestly not give a shit what he wants. Whatever fucked up shit I want to do, let me do that. When someone talks about ‘using him’, mostly he doesn’t imagine it in the way I do.

And if we’re talking fantasies, I have a whole crew of men in mine whose bodies I can inhabit in … Continue Reading

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Safety rules

Staying safe is a product of any number of things, and obviously this applies especially in the world of BDSM-related dating where it can be even easier for dangerous people to hide behind a veil of D/s type activities.

I’ve written before that newbies should do as I say, not as I do because what I SAY about safety actually makes a lot more objective sense than what I DO.

The reasons for that are many but the bottom line is that I trust my judgement. I feel like I am calling upon the gods of vengeance in saying … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #77

Welcome to Elust #77

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #78? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

On the Island of Mhowra

Shoulder shaming?

What becomes of the broken hearted…

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

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Audio porn: Amazed and delighted

Not of the kind you are expecting though, no femdommery, no actual porn.

But if you want to hear what I sound like when I’m amazed and delighted…

Listen to this:

 

While watching this:

** Note that there is about 18s of silence before the sound starts. **… Continue Reading

Loves: 7
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Reader Q&A: Gifts, revealing desires, virgins, toys [audio]

 

This Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes. In this one, I answer the following reader questions:

  • Offers of gifts: what would you do?
  • What qualities do you like about your regular readers?
  • Tasks for a sissy slut?
  • Should he talk to a friend of 20 years about his desires?
  • Have you read or seen ‘The Book of Revelation’? What did you think of it?
  • How important is training (of a dominant)?
  • Can a virgin be a dom?
  • Where can I get BDSM toys and outfits? (I mentioned frugaldomme.com in this answer, but should have checked it out first
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I’m on Molly’s 20 of 2015!

Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss is a wonderful blogger and photographer who you may not be so familiar with because she’s in a M/f relationship and writes from that perspective (this is the only reason why she’s not on my blog roll: not because she isn’t fabulous, but because I specifically keep that for F/m orientated blogs).

We had a lovely chat earlier this year for her Kisscast (an audio clip where you can hear an English accent and an Australian non-accent in one interview, you know, if that were your thing *smile*) and she is just as fun … Continue Reading

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27 posts for November

I managed 27 posts over November for NaBloRrrawrMo, though some of those were from Submissive Guy Comics so really a few less than 27.

I didn’t quite hit the mark of a post a day, but not too shabby.

I don’t deserve this, but I’m claiming it anyway, dammit!

I love it so much when SGC does comics just for me. SO GOOD!! Continue Reading

Loves: 4
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