You are beautiful

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again and again… submissive men are beautiful.

I think I probably leave readers with the impression that ‘beautiful’ to me means ‘perfect’. That I have some impossible standard.

It doesn’t and I don’t. Truly.

What I think is objectively beautiful is one thing. I DO have a body ‘type’ that appeals to me very much, and it is rather stereotypical – V-shaped, lean, sinewy muscle, not too big, adonis belt, six pack… oh my. I think of men’s bodies as pretty things to be admired, and when I see one that looks good to me, I am sometimes stunned into a fugue state where I just can’t look away.

What I think is beautiful in the man I want, though, the one who has my attention, the who I hope to see naked, the one who looks at me with trust and sweetness, well, that kind of beauty is painted with a much broader brush. When he is in my sights, when I am emotionally invested, when I *like* him, his beauty becomes overwhelming to me. The stereotypical ‘type’ is irrelevant then. I can be transfixed by the hollow at his collarbone, the strength in his fingers, that look in his eyes, the way his tongue laps at his lips, the curve of his arse. Everything changes for me when he has my attention.

‘Beautiful’ is subjective. When I say that a man is beautiful, I mean just that: that I am glorying in the whole of him and the parts of him that appeal to me, that hit me just right, that make my head spin, make me swoony-weak.

When I tell a boy “You are beautiful”, it means “I can’t look away”, it means “I can’t believe how lucky I am that you are here with me”, it means “Oh my god, your prettiness hurts my heart”, it means “I want to tear you to pieces”, it means “Look at me just like that, don’t stop”, it means “I can hardly breathe”, it means “Fuck… just… fuck… you are So. Fucking. Beautiful!”

And just in case you’ve forgotten why I get like that with submissive men specifically, let me remind you with this (original and backstory here: Submissive men: A celebration of beauty):

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12 comments

  1. It is the passion, lust, and respect you have for submissive men that made that video turn out so classy, tasteful, and beautiful. You did a really great job with it.

    “When I tell a boy “You are beautiful”, it means “I can’t look away”, it means “I can’t believe how lucky I am that you are here with me”, it means “Oh my god, your prettiness hurts my heart”, it means “I want to tear you to pieces”, it means “Look at me just like that, don’t stop”, it means “I can hardly breathe”, it means “Fuck… just… fuck… you are So. Fucking. Beautiful!””

    I love the passion you have for men. I just wish I had someone who seen me that way. ~smiles~ but of course not as a man lol

    Respectfully,
    mysticlez

    1. Thank you for the compliment on that video. I just love how it turned out!

      *smile* And I have no doubt you will find someone who will see you that way (not as a man, obviously…).

      Ferns

  2. Such a raw, beautiful, erotic and captivating video. I was glued to my computer and didn’t blink until the end.

    1. Thanks MsSusannah, aren’t they gorgeous?! *smile*

      And unlike tumblr photos, all the photos that I used for the project were sent in to me personally by the submissive men themselves, or by their partners. Given how beautiful they are, it seems unbelievable that none are publicly-sourced professional model shots.

      Extra swoon-worthy!!

      Ferns

  3. … and you are beautiful! I’m glad to have contributed an image among the many that you chose for your exquisite video collage, Ferms.

    1. *smile* Thank you!

      And thank you (again) so much for contributing your photo. The trust and willingness of contributors such as yourself is what made this project work.

      Ferns

  4. Yay! I still, watch that video. It makes me so happy to have been included in that project. You’re the best Ferns, but I’ve told you this before ;)

    1. *smile* I still watch it also. SO BEAUTIFUL!! And it was my absolute privilege to include your photos.

      I really should just re-post it every few months for those who haven’t seen it yet, and for those who have forgotten about it.

      And thank you for the lovely compliment.

      Ferns

  5. I know exactly what you mean – I often see a guy I like and say “What a beauty” Usually whoever I happen to be with at that time, looks at me as though i’m insane – but I feel it’s great to celebrate beautiful men :-)

    1. “I feel it’s great to celebrate beautiful men :-)”

      *smile* YES! I love that you say it to your friends. We need MORE women saying it out loud!

      Ferns

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