I can’t post this without a tedious and long winded explanation… God forbid you should just have a hot little video to enjoy without me blathering in your ear!
Femdom porn sucks. Really. I have never found any that I enjoy, and I have looked, believe me. It’s just not hot to me. It neither reflects my extreme, violent, unrealistic fantasies, nor does it at all represent the hotness, connection, complexity and nuance that makes it work for me on a more realistic level.
There is never any lust, any passion, any connection, any true hotness in it… she is cold and mean, he is suffering… ho hum. Mostly it’s because… well… porn actors can’t act and the scripts they are given are awful stereotypical femdom rubbish. Porn actors aren’t hired for their acting skills… they are hired because they will get their bits out and wave them around on film.
And then… then… I saw this…
It is not porn, it is obviously a clip from a movie. *This* is probably the closest to what play feels like for me that I have ever seen… it is not perfect, but THIS I can relate to.
What’s right with it:
- Kissing!!!! Kissing kissing kissing!
- They obviously have lust for each other, they **WANT**
- Passion… the heat is palpable
- Teasing (“Want this kiss? Oh no, I don’t think so…”)
- She touches him for her sensual pleasure… Mmmmm…
- She is turned on, not sneering and hateful, she loves this, she enjoys him
- His fear and pain and anticipation is an integral part of this passion
- He is reactive in a beautiful way, yearning and reaching and flinching
- They reach for each other, you see craving on both sides
What’s wrong with it:
- He is obviously telling her what to do, she seems new, that’s ok, but I wanted her to get all forceful and controlling with him
- Oh come on! Hit him properly!!! Gah! Don’t be flailing with it like it’s a wet towel *sigh*
- Ummm… hit him again… more more harder harder… look at him reacting… he’s lovely… let’s see some more of that!! Yummy!
- Her face when she hits him is suddenly unhappy, angry… shame
- Where is the sexyhungrycrazy escalation… it is all much too short and there is no build up of intensity… add *that* to *this* and we have a winner!
Edited to add: A commenter kindly identified the movie: it’s called Amorestremo
If you can identify the movie, you get… ummm… kudos and a virtual cookie!
P.S. Please don’t send me links to porn that you think is good unless it’s more of *this*because I can promise you that I will not like it…