When I am talking to a submissive to see if we are compatible, if we’re feeling each other out, seeing how we get along, testing if we can make sparks fly, doing that whole dating thing, I always assume that he is also talking to, seeing, dating others.
There is no expectation of exclusivity there. I don’t ask them about it. I consider it none of my business. I assume they think the same about … Continue Reading
Note: This femdom dating not-dating story is not current. I found it in my drafts, and you start to see now why I have so many drafts…
He’s 6’3, 32, super cute, fit, intelligent, articulate. And on another continent. Which is par for the course with me it seems.
We have lightly corresponded on Collarspace on and off for a few years. More off than on. His profile popped up on my page again and … Continue Reading
My new anthem.
(THIS is the song I was looking for when I became smitten by Song Of Women and posted that instead).
Woman, woman
Got a whole lot of nerve, she the flame in the fire
She’s a lover and a fighter and a king and a mother
Turn a boy to a man, build a whole empire
That woman got a story
With her halo standing in her glory
Woman woman
Take a … Continue Reading
Cycling north along the beach with the wind at our backs, the sun shining, and the surf endlessly rolling in, we could only just see our destination. The headland, far off in the distance, the salty haze making it shimmer in the distance. There was almost nobody around. Someone walking their dog, another person fishing, a surfer out the back of the break. Then miles of empty beach.
I always like the idea of a … Continue Reading
Note: This beautiful rainbow fabulousness in the image is NOT me. It’s VanillaFreeSex. NOT pixelated vision of her wonderfulness below.
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As an additional comment to this long-ago post about my telling a submissive man I’m smitten by that he’s beautiful, about his reaction to hearing it, I’m surprised that I didn’t mention that sometimes, he melts.
Sometimes I say the words and I see in his response a wordless kind of breaking down, a softening, a downing of walls, an internal sigh of surrender.
Getting him to that unguarded state is not so difficult: It … Continue Reading
I normally don’t give context for these, but this one needs context.
I had literally not heard from this submissive in 9 months. In our last correspondence he’d said he would be up my way soon and I said I’d consider meeting. He’d also said he’d done a reading and offered to send it to me. Then he never followed up with either of those. In fact, I never heard from him again.
I didn’t … Continue Reading
