The results of the ‘Femdom in Second Life survey (oh goodie, a graph! You know how I love graphs!!) were surprising to me, with a pretty even spread:
I actually expected many more votes for ‘Not’ (shows what I know!). Thank you to all who participated and particularly for your comments.
For those of you who have never heard of this Second Life (SL) thing, it is a virtual world made up of themed areas … Continue Reading
I have a post brewing about this, but I thought I would stall on finishing it first ask you, trusted readers, to give me your opinion.
There are communities in Second Life dedicated to female domination. I would like to hear from you what your overall view of it is (in the broadest possible strokes!).
Hot: It’s great (for whatever reason)
Not: It’s stupid (for whatever reason)
WTF?: I have no idea what you are … Continue Reading
Not only am I ‘bubbly’ (allegedly!), I was told recently by someone who read some of this blog that (are you ready…?):
…i didnt get a sense you were a Domme…
I am such a failure…
Did I mention this was a guy from Second Life? No…? Well, see, now you can understand why I am so concerned.
Must. Do. Better.
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I got on the phone recently with a wonderful submissive who I have been corresponding with for a long long time.
Apparently, I am ‘bubbly’.
I won’t stand for it, I tell you!!
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N made a comment on this post about how they know when a dominant is able to bring out the sub in them, and asked me some really great questions about how I know when a submissive is right for me:
Can you describe what “it” is for you? Is it the openness? The willingness to give you what you want?
I have had a post brewing about something very close to this for a … Continue Reading
Once upon a time, a Domme logged into a kink site where she has an account and there was, as always, a boy’s profile on her screen, filtered by her criteria, they always pop up. She takes an idle look. He is funny, irreverent, not kink-focussed. It is exactly the kind of thing she likes. She smiles in amusement at his description and notes the name (for later reference, you know…).
A while later, she … Continue Reading
I’m sure that quite a few of you have the impression that I am full of the mad dommely skillz.
Technically speaking, I am really rubbish.
You know why?
I don’t care. Seriously.
If I hit a boy with stuff, or bite him, or scratch him, or fuck him, or otherwise play with him, I don’t care if I am elegant, if the strikes are beautiful or if I look fabulous doing it. … Continue Reading