I am definitely 100%…

… wearing these shoes* over Christmas.

They don’t go with anything I own, they are hopelessly impractical, completely over-the-top for casual get-togethers, and I don’t care one bit.

I’m feeling stressed (already) with all the relentless peopling that is coming my way, bearing down like a freight train. Not just ‘peopling’, but ‘peopling while being endlessly cheerful’, which is the worst kind.

Wearing these will make me feel 85.6% more cheerful. Because MATHS.

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Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #97 – Dominant women struggle, turn-ons, limerence [Audio]

In this exciting instalment of the Q&A femdom podcast, I answer questions about the following:

  • Getting my long term vanilla husband into BDSM
  • Young domme has shitty experiences and I get fist-wavey about it
  • Tasks?
  • Turned on by wife’s pre-marriage affair
  • Hot scene in Blade: unf!
  • Discipline: what do you do?
  • Limerence: how do you deal?

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e[lust] #89

Welcome to Elust 89

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #90 Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

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Maybe I was wrong

This boy is going to break my heart.

I thought it was the other way around.

I think maybe I was wrong.

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Top 100 Sex Blogs 2016: Number 1!

Holy hell!

The fabulous Molly from Molly’s Daily Kiss (with whom I did a really fun interview a while ago) does a gazillion hours of work to compile her annual Top 100 Sex Blogs list from those that readers nominate as their favourites.

And shock of shockers, I am in the top spot this year! The. Top. Spot!!!


I’m so completely delighted and honoured. I feel like I should give a speech.

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