Reader Q&A: Femdom podcast #91 – Anal sex, shyness, pain sluts… [Audio]

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Reader Q&A: Femdom podcast #91 - Anal sex, shyness, pain sluts... [Audio]

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This is an experiment in podcasting, welcome to it *smile*.

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and while some of my old audio clips have made it into the podcast, this is the first brand new one. There will be at least one more and then I will see how I feel about it.

The questions I answered include:

  • How can I make receiving anal sex more domly?
  • Have you ever fed a man with your feet?

I laughed a lot in here: you’ll have to listen to see why…

  • Shy about being ‘a Domme’ around others, is this normal?
  • How can I make my submissive boyfriend into a painslut?
  • How do you feel about body hair on male subs?
  • Have you ever done a ‘forced bi’ scene?
  • Do you want your sub men to cry?
  • Can you recommend a good resource for beginner rope play?

As promised, the bondage books I own and quite like are (for what it’s worth, I find youtube videos much more useful than books):
Two Knotty Boys, Showing You the Ropes
Lee Harrington, Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame

I can’t really be sure that everything podcasty works until I publish it, so let’s see…!

Edited to add:  Um… it’s been about 20 minutes since I hit publish and the audio is not up on iTunes yet. So I’m hoping it just takes a while vs not working at all… Patience is not one of my virtues… :P.

Edited to add more: Okay it took about 2 hours, but it’s up on iTunes like a proper podcast now!


Want to ask me something? Pop on over to my Ask Me page and do it: even if I’m slow, I WILL get back to you! It’s completely anonymous, even to me, so nobody will know it was you…

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  1. First–no problems at all hearing it from ‘merica. I know that you were wondering last night.

    Second–this was great! There were so many times that I had to pause it because I was laughing so hard. I think it’s a great way for you to answer questions. :)

  2. I *LOVE* it!!!! I am downloading it right now and I will be listening to it, while pretending that you are reading me a bedtime story!

  3. Huh? Did I hear you pronoune it “sad-ist”? I’ve only ever heard “saydist” and “saahdist” (a la the French pronounciation of De Sade.) Granted that “sadistic” has it a bit more like in “sad”, though there it is more accurately “sa-distic”

    1. I DO say sad-ist, but that’s just me being eccentric (i.e. I say it wrong).

      For some reason I’ve ALWAYS said it like that, so now it’s a charming idiosyncrasy… :).


      1. “When I use a word,’ Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, ‘it means just what I choose it to mean — neither more nor less.’

        ’The question is,’ said Alice, ‘whether you can make words mean so many different things.’

        ’The question is,’ said Humpty Dumpty, ‘which is to be master — that’s all.”

  4. Loved to hear your Q&A, you are a feast to listen to while doing some work. Please feel free to make all your Q&A audio from now on, i’ll be sure to spam you with questions just to hear your voice. Love, a long time lurker

    1. I did think of you (and the abuse you would hurl at me… I see you went straight to ‘Nazis’ there :P). I also looked around for voice-to-text translation software (again), but still couldn’t find any that didn’t involve a heap of manual work :(.

      Suffice it to say, the word ‘clunge’ was used in one of the questions :).


      1. *laughs* I did however pass on fist waving so you know I was kind :) Don’t worry love, I just hope you do write the odd bit though, Heh clunge a classic

  5. Love leaving semi-troll questions for bloggers to answer even if they just provide an opportunity for light hearted mocking or just to lighten QnA posts up. Yes I am the “horse dildo” guy, I do apologise I had far too much whiskey when I wrote that. But on the plus side I got to hear your lovely angelic voice, you sound so intellectual, warm, well spoken and down to earth. And seriously I love your blog, it has helped me through many confusing times with kink and just brightened up my days when reading it.

    1. *laugh* Oh my god: Your question (well, it wasn’t even really a question…) made me laugh so hard. That whiskey was clearly doing its job.

      Apology accepted :).

      And I’m glad you liked the audio and are enjoying my blog. And thank you for the laugh.


  6. Concerning audio v written, your thoughtfulness in writing is apparent, but the spontaneity evident in the audio is charming. I enjoy the writing, but now find myself craving the opportunity to sit across the table, with glasses of wine, and watch the play of emotion as you speak.
    Fun entry.

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