Reader Q&A: Anal sex, shyness, pain sluts… [audio]

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This is an experiment in podcasting *smile*.

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and while some of my old audio clips have made it into the podcast, this is the first brand new one. There will be at least one more and then I will see how I feel about it.

The questions I answered include:

  • How can I make receiving anal sex more domly?
  • Have you ever fed a man with your feet?

I laughed a lot in here: you’ll have to listen to see why…

  • Shy about being ‘a Domme’ around others,
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Le 5 star French book review!

…or ma première critique du livre français…

I had to show off my first 5 star review on here because it’s hidden away from users. Also it’s in French *swoon*.

The author kindly translated it for me (Google translate doesn’t QUITE get it right) and it’s wonderful:

A very good book of short stories where the female dominates!!!

I loved it! This book deserves to be better known.

Since its publication, critics from this book were amazing. It puzzled me and led me to Her website (same name as the book). Her texts hooked me, so … Continue Reading

Loves: 7
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Classic black corset

I found this photo while cleaning up my files. I’ve posted photos of a different, more beautifully intricate corset before, but I don’t think I’ve shared this photo of my classic black one.

With jeans, for that ‘oh this old thing?’ casual look...

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Loves: 11
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e[lust] #74

Welcome to Elust #74

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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

My shame
Has E L James broken erotica?
Sex Addiction is a Scam

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Goodbye, I’m Gone
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He fights back

He said he’d fight back when he was being hurt: Not ‘ha ha’ kidding around play-fighting, but a kind of involuntary ‘fight or flight’ reaction that would kick in hard.

His body would involuntarily flail and punch and try to get away.

He wasn’t bratting or intentionally being difficult, and he wasn’t wanting to stop, but he knew himself and he knew how he reacted to pain. He had enough experience to know that he had to warn play partners that this was what he was like. He was genuinely worried about accidentally hurting his partner. And rightly so. He … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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I’m away from home at the moment, on another continent, a vacation, a scoping out. No, not meeting a potential (come on, like I’d be able to keep that to myself!), more’s the pity.

Random things floating around in my head.


I have some internet connectivity, but I am uninterested in it. It seems so far away. This is a good thing. I am so used to being plugged in, that a break must be healthy for me. To be sure I can survive it, should the apocalypse start with a sharp slide into disconnectedness.

Today I feel … Continue Reading

Loves: 4
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