Book cover – poll results

Thank you so much to everyone who voted and commented! I really appreciate the input (plus it’s super-fun to see what people think!).

The results were pretty close with 7 winning out over 5.


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With the comments and private emails I have received, it’s clear that the font used in 5-7 is preferred, and that images from 1 or 2 might be reusable on covers with that font. And many of you expressed the opinion … Continue Reading

Loves: 4
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Happy femdom story – greg

A few months ago I got a really lovely email from a reader and he mentioned that he had been inspired by the happy femdom stories that people have shared here.

He said that he wasn’t sure if his story would fit because he and his wife started their life together as a vanilla couple and their D/s relationship evolved from there. Well of COURSE it fits (we have had two others with similar stories)! … Continue Reading

Loves: 20
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Book cover – have your say!

I’m wanting to get my book out in the next few weeks (I know… exciting!! *squee*).

I’m prone to a kind of useless perfectionist dithering, which is not doing me any favours because I will forever be going ‘No not happy, I need to change *something else* now…’ ad infinitum.

To get over that thinking and help me shove this thing out the door, I’d love to get your input on the cover (a … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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My bubble

I wonder sometimes if I will ever be able to live with anyone again.

I have lived with people before of course. In my early post-parental-home life, it was flatmates. I moved in with my first partner when I was about 24. Since then, I’ve preferred to live alone rather than share a home with anyone I wasn’t sleeping with. Barring extraordinary circumstances, I will never again live with anyone who isn’t my partner.

My … Continue Reading

Loves: 15
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Dear cute kilted boy…

Dear cute kilted boy,

I have a terrible memory for things both big and small, but I remember you.

We were at a BDSM event: I knew one person there, and nobody else. But I am pretty good at flitting around, pretending to be social.

You wore a kilt. Of course I remember you. I mean, *you wore a kilt*!

You were standing with two other men, I suspect they weren’t your friends, on reflection. … Continue Reading

Loves: 13
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e[lust] #52

I’m absolutely delighted to be in the top 3 picks along with such great company (my post: Vulnerability as courage) *smile*. Enjoy!

Secretlysensous Photo courtesy of Secretly Sensuous

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #53? … Continue Reading

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Men in bondage… aw yeah!

Today I discovered a German rigger whose photos are just amazing. He ties up both men and women, but his shots with men… just… oh my. Original and beautiful and and… guh! So much to love!

Here’s his blog: The Art of Being Held. Go and give him some love!

You’re welcome!


Oh, and if you have some fabulous sources for photos of men in bondage, please share in the comments (I have … Continue Reading

Loves: 7
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